Re: The new PM
Perhaps we should have a forum called 'behind the virtual bike shed' where people can go and tear lumps out of each other -then when it builds up on a thread, instead of clogging up an issue or, worse still, frightening off an original poster, the ‘combatants’ can go there and sort it out. Would probably need the same conditions as the stags pants’!
It may just be irritating for others on a discussion thread such as this one but on a ‘help’ thread it is simply going to scare off the original poster.
I do believe that the beauty of this site is that the advisers have the required knowledge and dispense it in a language understood by those in trouble. We are lucky to have people who learned ‘the hard way’ and that means they can advise with the best qualification in the world -experience. No need for rambling soliloquies in confusing legaleses. In most cases it is helping people to help themselves. We also have the benefit of qualified legal people who will wheel out the big guns when it comes to referencing laws and legislation or rolling around on the courtroom floor.
Helping someone in desperate need is an incredible thing to do and I am in awe of the experts on here. I just get fed up when giving advice turns into a p***ing contest.
Perhaps we should have a forum called 'behind the virtual bike shed' where people can go and tear lumps out of each other -then when it builds up on a thread, instead of clogging up an issue or, worse still, frightening off an original poster, the ‘combatants’ can go there and sort it out. Would probably need the same conditions as the stags pants’!
It may just be irritating for others on a discussion thread such as this one but on a ‘help’ thread it is simply going to scare off the original poster.
I do believe that the beauty of this site is that the advisers have the required knowledge and dispense it in a language understood by those in trouble. We are lucky to have people who learned ‘the hard way’ and that means they can advise with the best qualification in the world -experience. No need for rambling soliloquies in confusing legaleses. In most cases it is helping people to help themselves. We also have the benefit of qualified legal people who will wheel out the big guns when it comes to referencing laws and legislation or rolling around on the courtroom floor.
Helping someone in desperate need is an incredible thing to do and I am in awe of the experts on here. I just get fed up when giving advice turns into a p***ing contest.
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