Guidance and suggestions really appreciated on this one please : I will endeavour to keep things concise but please bear with me on this but let me paint the picture first
Basically, My wife lost her father a few years back , her mum is still alive and lives in the same house as she has always done My wife has three sisters , and three brothers . Two of the sisters live and work in the UK along with one brother the other brothers live and work overseas . When my wife’s father passed away some months later I went to the house and happened to help my mother in law to open the mail as she is elderly and has arthritis and was shocked to find that she was due a visit by the bailiffs to seize goods in three days . It was always claimed that her son was looking after all her affairs and we started to look deeper The next thing that was found was the overdue fees for the nursing home that had not been paid prior to his demise and this surprised us as his accounts had been set up to pay these out of his pension To cut the story short the son had managed to get the pin and card from his fathers room and stole nearly £12,000 I pressed for charges to be brought but as the detective investigating said there was a case to answer but in our absence he pleaded with his mum and she refused to give the primary statement for the case to go forward
since that time I have been keeping a vary wary eye in his business dealings and found that he had registered his mums home as the registered address for his business dealings and even as of today’s date has managed to coerce his mum into signing papers at some stage without our knowledge to be a director of it
Accounts
In all these instances we have tried to warn the mum of what is going on , but the sweet talker he is , it doesn’t seem to make any difference
We know he has his eye on the house she lives in to the point that he has even moved property in there what makes this wors is that he has managed to apply and get power of attorney status for the mum
I have raised considerable concern to pathetic public guardians office even highlighting the above events to them and offering the evidence and a statement from the bank stating that the above events were a correct account of events. and objected to the application being granted based on him not being a reliable and trustworthy amilperson to take care of his mums welfare and finances To my dismay they wrote back stated that they were unable to refuse the application as they could only consider taking action if he had done something wrong when he become power of attorney and not before
He claims to be terminally ill and is telling other family members he has to go overseas for treatment which costs £6000 each time , AND I SMELL A RAT Aga
Basically, My wife lost her father a few years back , her mum is still alive and lives in the same house as she has always done My wife has three sisters , and three brothers . Two of the sisters live and work in the UK along with one brother the other brothers live and work overseas . When my wife’s father passed away some months later I went to the house and happened to help my mother in law to open the mail as she is elderly and has arthritis and was shocked to find that she was due a visit by the bailiffs to seize goods in three days . It was always claimed that her son was looking after all her affairs and we started to look deeper The next thing that was found was the overdue fees for the nursing home that had not been paid prior to his demise and this surprised us as his accounts had been set up to pay these out of his pension To cut the story short the son had managed to get the pin and card from his fathers room and stole nearly £12,000 I pressed for charges to be brought but as the detective investigating said there was a case to answer but in our absence he pleaded with his mum and she refused to give the primary statement for the case to go forward
since that time I have been keeping a vary wary eye in his business dealings and found that he had registered his mums home as the registered address for his business dealings and even as of today’s date has managed to coerce his mum into signing papers at some stage without our knowledge to be a director of it
Accounts
In all these instances we have tried to warn the mum of what is going on , but the sweet talker he is , it doesn’t seem to make any difference
We know he has his eye on the house she lives in to the point that he has even moved property in there what makes this wors is that he has managed to apply and get power of attorney status for the mum
I have raised considerable concern to pathetic public guardians office even highlighting the above events to them and offering the evidence and a statement from the bank stating that the above events were a correct account of events. and objected to the application being granted based on him not being a reliable and trustworthy amilperson to take care of his mums welfare and finances To my dismay they wrote back stated that they were unable to refuse the application as they could only consider taking action if he had done something wrong when he become power of attorney and not before
He claims to be terminally ill and is telling other family members he has to go overseas for treatment which costs £6000 each time , AND I SMELL A RAT Aga
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