Re: Can the bank ‘UNCLEAR’ cleared funds?
hi Des8,
thanks for that.
I agree that it may be prudent to go to mediation but this will turn on a legal point won't it? I may be wrong, I've never been to a mediation but I imagine a mediation would be looking to agree the finances only, not the rights and wrongs? You're right that I can't afford and don't want to be unreasonable but I'm not sure that mediation would be the way to resolve this in the way that I would want, as I say it has never been just about the money - although I probably would have been less interested initially if the cheque had been for £2.50 - on the other hand I don't think the Om would have said £500 was appropriate if the cheque had been £2.50 either.
Nicki
hi Des8,
thanks for that.
I agree that it may be prudent to go to mediation but this will turn on a legal point won't it? I may be wrong, I've never been to a mediation but I imagine a mediation would be looking to agree the finances only, not the rights and wrongs? You're right that I can't afford and don't want to be unreasonable but I'm not sure that mediation would be the way to resolve this in the way that I would want, as I say it has never been just about the money - although I probably would have been less interested initially if the cheque had been for £2.50 - on the other hand I don't think the Om would have said £500 was appropriate if the cheque had been £2.50 either.
Nicki
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