Hi Everyone.
Before I ask my questions I will explain my situation:
Back in July I was travelling to my girlfriends on the bus. I had used her 16+ free oyster card to get home the day before as I had no money so when going back to hers the day after I used it again and a ticket officer got on the bus and then I received a £60 fine. I had/still have no job and so I wasn't able to pay this and was too scared to tell my parents. So I thought if I left it that it would just go away and be forgotten about. Months later a letter from the court asking about my income. At the time of reading it I was just skim reading so not reading it word for word and didn't realise that it said I had a date to attend court on it. Weeks later I started receiving letters from Philips Bailiffs saying I had a £450 fine and to pay immediately or bailiffs would attend my house and remove items. I then decided I had no choice but to tell my parents, I told my mum who lives far away from me as she is alot more understanding and she said if I had told her that it was £60 she would've let me the money to pay it back then but as it's £450 she doesn't have that sort of money and I wouldnt ever expect her or anyone to pay it for me. I eventually got the courage to tell my dad and he said it's my problem and to sort it myself and quickly so no one comes to his house (where I live). I don't own anything valuable really and I never have but my dad has alot of expensive music equipment here and also his laptop he uses for work. I phoned up Philips and they said the least they can do is that I pay £100 a fortnight and if I don't pay it on time someone will attend my (dads) property and remove items. since setting up the arrangement I have managed to pay £150 of the fine from selling my mobile and using it all to pay what I could. but because I havent stuck to the arrangement they said unless I give them a date that I can pay the rest in full then they will proceed to send someone to my house. I'm only 19 years and I know I should be working but I struggle with confidence and phoning people up is a scary thing for me (stupid i know) so I have emailed Philips many times telling them I will pay what I can when I can and that I'm sorry that I can't pay lots and explained my situation to them but they just won't give in. Overall I'm scared that if someone comes to my house that they will takes my dads things which will mean he will kick me out and I'll have nowhere to go.
My Questions:
in one topic it says "DO ask to see the bailiffs certificate" but if I open the door to him does that mean he can push his way past me and take things? how can I speak to him without opening windows and doors? I live next to a pub and my dad is always in and out and sometimes leaves the front door open if he is expecting a friend of his to knock and he is not very understanding at all he will just blame me if anything does happen even though I've told him loads of times. Most importantly I just need the best advice on what to do. I can't sleep at night because of it. I know I'm not the only one going through this but any advice means so much to me that I can't put it in words. Thankyou to anyone that has taken there time to read my thread.
Abit about me: I'm 19 and live in Bromley, Kent.
Thanks
Ash.
Before I ask my questions I will explain my situation:
Back in July I was travelling to my girlfriends on the bus. I had used her 16+ free oyster card to get home the day before as I had no money so when going back to hers the day after I used it again and a ticket officer got on the bus and then I received a £60 fine. I had/still have no job and so I wasn't able to pay this and was too scared to tell my parents. So I thought if I left it that it would just go away and be forgotten about. Months later a letter from the court asking about my income. At the time of reading it I was just skim reading so not reading it word for word and didn't realise that it said I had a date to attend court on it. Weeks later I started receiving letters from Philips Bailiffs saying I had a £450 fine and to pay immediately or bailiffs would attend my house and remove items. I then decided I had no choice but to tell my parents, I told my mum who lives far away from me as she is alot more understanding and she said if I had told her that it was £60 she would've let me the money to pay it back then but as it's £450 she doesn't have that sort of money and I wouldnt ever expect her or anyone to pay it for me. I eventually got the courage to tell my dad and he said it's my problem and to sort it myself and quickly so no one comes to his house (where I live). I don't own anything valuable really and I never have but my dad has alot of expensive music equipment here and also his laptop he uses for work. I phoned up Philips and they said the least they can do is that I pay £100 a fortnight and if I don't pay it on time someone will attend my (dads) property and remove items. since setting up the arrangement I have managed to pay £150 of the fine from selling my mobile and using it all to pay what I could. but because I havent stuck to the arrangement they said unless I give them a date that I can pay the rest in full then they will proceed to send someone to my house. I'm only 19 years and I know I should be working but I struggle with confidence and phoning people up is a scary thing for me (stupid i know) so I have emailed Philips many times telling them I will pay what I can when I can and that I'm sorry that I can't pay lots and explained my situation to them but they just won't give in. Overall I'm scared that if someone comes to my house that they will takes my dads things which will mean he will kick me out and I'll have nowhere to go.
My Questions:
in one topic it says "DO ask to see the bailiffs certificate" but if I open the door to him does that mean he can push his way past me and take things? how can I speak to him without opening windows and doors? I live next to a pub and my dad is always in and out and sometimes leaves the front door open if he is expecting a friend of his to knock and he is not very understanding at all he will just blame me if anything does happen even though I've told him loads of times. Most importantly I just need the best advice on what to do. I can't sleep at night because of it. I know I'm not the only one going through this but any advice means so much to me that I can't put it in words. Thankyou to anyone that has taken there time to read my thread.
Abit about me: I'm 19 and live in Bromley, Kent.
Thanks
Ash.
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