Hello.
My mother died 10 weeks ago, some 5 years after the death of my father.
When they were both alive they told me and my sister that they had left half of their estate in their Will to each of us.
We are/were their only children.
My sister has three adult children as do I. Over the past few years, my sister and one of her children have been taking care of the day to day things that crop up for my mother like hospital appointments, shopping and the cooking of a Sunday dinner.
They both live in their own houses, my sister is about a mile away and son lives a few houses from my mother.
I live 30 miles away and saw much less of mum.
It seems that just prior to her death mum became very ill, but despite this I was not informed of that situation by my sister. I was though sent a 2 line text by her son after mum had died saying 'mum has died this evening at home'. No other information given. The next day I contacted mum's solicitor in order to inform them of what had happened and to confirm my contact details. The solicitor did not reply. A week later I received a phone call from my sister saying that she and her son had been to see mum's solicitor and had the Will read to them. I was to be given 15% of the total estate with the remainder going to my sister and her three children. My children have not been mentioned.
My sister also told me that her son had taken my mum to the solicitors a few months ago in order to make some changes to her Will.
I contacted the solicitor and asked why it was that I had not been invited to the reading. Again, they did not reply.
I then heard that my sister's son had been abusive to her after hearing that she had phoned me. He took her phone from her and destroyed it.
I contacted the solicitor, this time asking if if I can have a copy of the Will. No reply again.
In order that things did not get out of hand I requested a Caveat in order to put things on hold and give me time to gather more information.
A few days later the son contacted me saying that mum's solicitors had been in touch with them and that he and his mum, my sister, are the only executors. He also told me that once probate had been sorted then I could obtain a copy of the will.
Sorry for the long drawn out background, but my question is, do I contact the executor or mum's solicitor, or both, and advise them of the Caveat, [which I'm sure they know about now], and explain why I have requested it.
Is there any way that I can obtain a copy of the Will while the Caveat is in place.
Do I have a case to complain about mum's solicitor, who has still not made contact with me despite me writing 4 letters to him.
Like most on here, I have limited funds but realise I may have to seek legal advice at some point.
Thanks for reading.
My mother died 10 weeks ago, some 5 years after the death of my father.
When they were both alive they told me and my sister that they had left half of their estate in their Will to each of us.
We are/were their only children.
My sister has three adult children as do I. Over the past few years, my sister and one of her children have been taking care of the day to day things that crop up for my mother like hospital appointments, shopping and the cooking of a Sunday dinner.
They both live in their own houses, my sister is about a mile away and son lives a few houses from my mother.
I live 30 miles away and saw much less of mum.
It seems that just prior to her death mum became very ill, but despite this I was not informed of that situation by my sister. I was though sent a 2 line text by her son after mum had died saying 'mum has died this evening at home'. No other information given. The next day I contacted mum's solicitor in order to inform them of what had happened and to confirm my contact details. The solicitor did not reply. A week later I received a phone call from my sister saying that she and her son had been to see mum's solicitor and had the Will read to them. I was to be given 15% of the total estate with the remainder going to my sister and her three children. My children have not been mentioned.
My sister also told me that her son had taken my mum to the solicitors a few months ago in order to make some changes to her Will.
I contacted the solicitor and asked why it was that I had not been invited to the reading. Again, they did not reply.
I then heard that my sister's son had been abusive to her after hearing that she had phoned me. He took her phone from her and destroyed it.
I contacted the solicitor, this time asking if if I can have a copy of the Will. No reply again.
In order that things did not get out of hand I requested a Caveat in order to put things on hold and give me time to gather more information.
A few days later the son contacted me saying that mum's solicitors had been in touch with them and that he and his mum, my sister, are the only executors. He also told me that once probate had been sorted then I could obtain a copy of the will.
Sorry for the long drawn out background, but my question is, do I contact the executor or mum's solicitor, or both, and advise them of the Caveat, [which I'm sure they know about now], and explain why I have requested it.
Is there any way that I can obtain a copy of the Will while the Caveat is in place.
Do I have a case to complain about mum's solicitor, who has still not made contact with me despite me writing 4 letters to him.
Like most on here, I have limited funds but realise I may have to seek legal advice at some point.
Thanks for reading.
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