I desperately hope someone can help or advise us. We are being taken to court by a solicitors for their client, a multi-national nursing home business, for over £20,000 of nursing home fees accrued by my mother. Because I signed her into the home I am liable despite the home telling us they were going to sort out applying for funding once her assets ran out (which they now deny). I have been trying to sort out a way to repay some of the funds and put ourselves further into debt asking for an initial case from a solicitor earlier this year. I wrote over three months ago offering an initial settlement with them and have chased them repeatedly ever since by mail (agreed contact with them to one named person) and phone as they have refused to respond. In the meantime an interim charging order was put on our property which is our only asset as we have no savings at all. Whilst we have no dependent children (under law) with us here, we do have two under 20 with mental health issues and health issues of our own. We both work and receive no benefits and have been completely unable to engage a solicitor or anyone to advise us about all of this as we are struggling to pay back mortgage arrears and other debts as it is.
We are completely desperate and I don't feel I can take much more: I don't see the point in any of it anymore. I finally received a letter this morning from the solicitors (after I threatened them by saying that it appeared that they were stonewalling me by refusing to discuss settlements simply because when it goes to court they can claim charges (over £30,000 worth I may add!) for attending the court. The letter states that they reject my offer and that I have to send any further offer in writing with evidence of our financial position and the value of the charges registered and pending registration against the property and that they anticipate receiving instructions to apply for an Order of Sale.
It appears to me that this has been deliberately timed to make sure there is no way we can to and fro in the time leading up to Christmas and New Year when their offices will be closed as the court date is in the first week of January.
At the moment I feel like life isn't worth it. I am not the sort of person to be that way, however I feel beyond desperate and as though we are trapped in a nightmare. My mother must be turning in her grave. Please, please can anyone offer any advice at all? Please.
We are completely desperate and I don't feel I can take much more: I don't see the point in any of it anymore. I finally received a letter this morning from the solicitors (after I threatened them by saying that it appeared that they were stonewalling me by refusing to discuss settlements simply because when it goes to court they can claim charges (over £30,000 worth I may add!) for attending the court. The letter states that they reject my offer and that I have to send any further offer in writing with evidence of our financial position and the value of the charges registered and pending registration against the property and that they anticipate receiving instructions to apply for an Order of Sale.
It appears to me that this has been deliberately timed to make sure there is no way we can to and fro in the time leading up to Christmas and New Year when their offices will be closed as the court date is in the first week of January.
At the moment I feel like life isn't worth it. I am not the sort of person to be that way, however I feel beyond desperate and as though we are trapped in a nightmare. My mother must be turning in her grave. Please, please can anyone offer any advice at all? Please.
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