I have posted before and google has not been my friend. Basically I am working myself up into a frenzy, worried about being arrested for "carrying out reserve legal activities" or "fraud by false representation", "acting as a solicitor" or "holding myself out to be a solicitor" - the more I google, the more possible offences arise!
I didn''t sign anything or fill in any forms, other than a slip from the usher which asked for my name and my friends name (maybe address, not sure).
I represented a friend In January at the final hearing in family court, this was opposing the level of contact the dad was seeking in a child arrangements order. The order was made, I questioned the mum (my friend) and the dad. I never said I was a solicitor, in fact I told the other solicitor I was just helping a friend. My friend knew I had a law degree, but she believed I was a solicitor as it is her belief that upon finishing the course you qualify (I now know this to be untrue!).
I then went to 2 hearings in family court with another friend in March. The first hearing her ex didn't turn up, but a prohibited steps order was made (I barely spoke, but I did speak to the judges). Turns out he never received notification, so it was relisted the following week. On this occasion I questioned him and my friend. The order remained, and the matter was adjourned to give him time to get a solicitor.
A month later, I went to court with the friend and met the ex''s solicitor, who went crazy at me saying it as a criminal offence and I could be arrested as I wasn't on the roll of solicitors. I said I wasn't aware I needed to be, as I was only helping out as a McKenzie Friend, and had assumed I was allowed to talk as nobody had said otherwise. She said I had held myself out as a solicitor by not making it clear I wasn't one and that I should have applied to be a McKenzie Friend. She said she would report me. I didn't go into the courtroom on this day, but my friend said the solicitor told the court she would be reporting me.
The usher asked my friend if I was a solictor and she said yes. (I was in the toilet) the usher then asked me for my SRA number (I dont have one) my last employment and said that the legal advisor in court had asked her to ask me this. My last employment in any related field was in 2009 when I worked in a pest control company filling in legal forms to get clients sent to court to reclaim unpaid debt.
The final hearing in this case is next week. It was delayed as my friend felt there was bias (I don't know why, this was the hearing I didn't attend). She is unhappy with the amount of contact her ex has with the kids. My friend now has a solicitor (ironically the same firm opposing me in January!) who apparently cannot make the hearing next week so she will be unrepresented or possibly paying for someone else. This hearing is before a judge (someone more senior she says)
It has now been 4 months since the solicitor said she would report me and I haven't heard anything.
Would the police have found me by now? My friends obviously know where I live but I didn't give the court any information as they never asked. They only have my name. Will they turn up at my work to arrest me? I work days in one job and a pub at night, both are 40 mins from my home.
I am terrified that this judge next week will demand to know whats been done about me, or will make his own report - what happens then?
I am terrified of prison, I have two young kids, no family at all (they're abusive), no friends, the kids' dad killed himself and his family are abusive... so what will happen to my kids? Will they send them to these abusive relatives? I'm all my kids have, if I go to prison they will never cope, eldest has PTSD and abandonment issues. I'm all the youngest one knows.
I have an appointment with my GP next week to discuss my own mental health as my anxiety is getting bad, I am not sleeping as I am so scared. I'm mostly worried for my kids, they'd be terrified seeing me arrested, them having nowhere to go, coming home from school without getting to say goodbye to me as I've been sent down.
I was only trying to help my friends, I wish I hadn't now. I wasn't paid or anything (other than small amount for expenses like fuel), I was literally just trying to help them out. Now my life is ruined.
From what I've read, depending on what I'm charged with, it could be 2 - 5 years in prison! Worse cos it's family court!! "To maintain faith in the legal system" and reflect seriousness!!
I tried calling a law firm but they didn't know much about it as it is so rare. They couldn't tell me when to expect police either.
I'm constantly on eggshells - could they arrest me in 2 weeks, 2 months, 6 months? A year later? Can I ever relax? Is there a warrant out for me? How would they even find me as I'm not on the electoral roll yet? (moved a year ago, still waiting!)
I didn''t sign anything or fill in any forms, other than a slip from the usher which asked for my name and my friends name (maybe address, not sure).
I represented a friend In January at the final hearing in family court, this was opposing the level of contact the dad was seeking in a child arrangements order. The order was made, I questioned the mum (my friend) and the dad. I never said I was a solicitor, in fact I told the other solicitor I was just helping a friend. My friend knew I had a law degree, but she believed I was a solicitor as it is her belief that upon finishing the course you qualify (I now know this to be untrue!).
I then went to 2 hearings in family court with another friend in March. The first hearing her ex didn't turn up, but a prohibited steps order was made (I barely spoke, but I did speak to the judges). Turns out he never received notification, so it was relisted the following week. On this occasion I questioned him and my friend. The order remained, and the matter was adjourned to give him time to get a solicitor.
A month later, I went to court with the friend and met the ex''s solicitor, who went crazy at me saying it as a criminal offence and I could be arrested as I wasn't on the roll of solicitors. I said I wasn't aware I needed to be, as I was only helping out as a McKenzie Friend, and had assumed I was allowed to talk as nobody had said otherwise. She said I had held myself out as a solicitor by not making it clear I wasn't one and that I should have applied to be a McKenzie Friend. She said she would report me. I didn't go into the courtroom on this day, but my friend said the solicitor told the court she would be reporting me.
The usher asked my friend if I was a solictor and she said yes. (I was in the toilet) the usher then asked me for my SRA number (I dont have one) my last employment and said that the legal advisor in court had asked her to ask me this. My last employment in any related field was in 2009 when I worked in a pest control company filling in legal forms to get clients sent to court to reclaim unpaid debt.
The final hearing in this case is next week. It was delayed as my friend felt there was bias (I don't know why, this was the hearing I didn't attend). She is unhappy with the amount of contact her ex has with the kids. My friend now has a solicitor (ironically the same firm opposing me in January!) who apparently cannot make the hearing next week so she will be unrepresented or possibly paying for someone else. This hearing is before a judge (someone more senior she says)
It has now been 4 months since the solicitor said she would report me and I haven't heard anything.
Would the police have found me by now? My friends obviously know where I live but I didn't give the court any information as they never asked. They only have my name. Will they turn up at my work to arrest me? I work days in one job and a pub at night, both are 40 mins from my home.
I am terrified that this judge next week will demand to know whats been done about me, or will make his own report - what happens then?
I am terrified of prison, I have two young kids, no family at all (they're abusive), no friends, the kids' dad killed himself and his family are abusive... so what will happen to my kids? Will they send them to these abusive relatives? I'm all my kids have, if I go to prison they will never cope, eldest has PTSD and abandonment issues. I'm all the youngest one knows.
I have an appointment with my GP next week to discuss my own mental health as my anxiety is getting bad, I am not sleeping as I am so scared. I'm mostly worried for my kids, they'd be terrified seeing me arrested, them having nowhere to go, coming home from school without getting to say goodbye to me as I've been sent down.
I was only trying to help my friends, I wish I hadn't now. I wasn't paid or anything (other than small amount for expenses like fuel), I was literally just trying to help them out. Now my life is ruined.
From what I've read, depending on what I'm charged with, it could be 2 - 5 years in prison! Worse cos it's family court!! "To maintain faith in the legal system" and reflect seriousness!!
I tried calling a law firm but they didn't know much about it as it is so rare. They couldn't tell me when to expect police either.
I'm constantly on eggshells - could they arrest me in 2 weeks, 2 months, 6 months? A year later? Can I ever relax? Is there a warrant out for me? How would they even find me as I'm not on the electoral roll yet? (moved a year ago, still waiting!)
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