Hello, Firstly I’d like to apologise if I’m posting in the wrong place. But I was wondering if anyone could offer me some advice please. While with my ex I paid a debt off for him, and due to sour circumstances (lying about money and such) the relationship soon broke down after the loan was paid off. At first he agreed in person (while we was still together) that he would pay me back he full amount, which was around £3500 mark. After the relationship broke down and through trying to remain amicable we agreed he would pay £2000 off (he protested he couldn’t pay the full amount as he had paid rent and such while living with me, even though I had paid same amount in rent too) but I agreed on £2000, I’d like to add I have all these conversations saved.
He began payment of £100 a month until he had paid the full £2000, and this was last November (12 months ago) that he started this. All was going well until a few months back.
The past 4 months I’ve had to text to remind him or ask him if he was making the payment. I even said to him I understand if he was struggling or needed to take a month off, I’ve tried to be very friendly through the whole thing, and numerous times he has told me he will be paying me a lump sum to finish the debt, but I have not held my breath. Each month has been a new excuse but he had eventually paid. However this month he has ignored my message, where on the Tuesday I messaged and asked him to pop it in my account by Friday. And he has not. He has ignored my message completely even though the messaging service says he has been online regularly.
Id rather not get into a texting/telephone row and I was wondering what my options are?
Thankyou.
He began payment of £100 a month until he had paid the full £2000, and this was last November (12 months ago) that he started this. All was going well until a few months back.
The past 4 months I’ve had to text to remind him or ask him if he was making the payment. I even said to him I understand if he was struggling or needed to take a month off, I’ve tried to be very friendly through the whole thing, and numerous times he has told me he will be paying me a lump sum to finish the debt, but I have not held my breath. Each month has been a new excuse but he had eventually paid. However this month he has ignored my message, where on the Tuesday I messaged and asked him to pop it in my account by Friday. And he has not. He has ignored my message completely even though the messaging service says he has been online regularly.
Id rather not get into a texting/telephone row and I was wondering what my options are?
Thankyou.
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