This is a very long and complicated story so I shall try and keep it as brief as possible, but I'm am worried for my daughters mental health and my grandson, basically my daughter was in a relationship with her 10 month olds father, he is very opinionated and always seems to put my daughter down and has made her feel very low, she is on anti depression tablets,
anyway long story short they split up be decided to live under the same roof for a while until he could afford to move out, then about 6 weeks ago out of the blue I got a call from him saying that my grandson was in hospital as the health visitor had reported them for hurting my grandson as he had some small bruises on his body, they have done test and said they have rights to think he has been hurt and have ordered his mum to be my grandsons 24 hr supervisor, the ex and his mum are constantly putting my daughter down and talking to her like a child and now his mum is threatening to take my grandson to stop at hers tomorrow until this is over,
I have read the papers from the social services and it states that she is his 24 hr supervisor not his carer, so my impression of this is she is not allowed to take him to her house without my daughters permission, the other thing is she is also braking the order as she does not supervise as she is supposed to as my grandson does not sleep in her bedroom but still with mum n dad n she is also not present when he is being bathed,
If anyone has any experience in this are they able to answer a couple of questions,
My daughter now wants me and my husband to be supervisor (she only agreed to her as she was pushed into it by the ex) is this possible?
And is the ex's mum allowed to just take the baby to hers if my daughter says no,
sorry for the long post
Any help is gratefully received xxx
anyway long story short they split up be decided to live under the same roof for a while until he could afford to move out, then about 6 weeks ago out of the blue I got a call from him saying that my grandson was in hospital as the health visitor had reported them for hurting my grandson as he had some small bruises on his body, they have done test and said they have rights to think he has been hurt and have ordered his mum to be my grandsons 24 hr supervisor, the ex and his mum are constantly putting my daughter down and talking to her like a child and now his mum is threatening to take my grandson to stop at hers tomorrow until this is over,
I have read the papers from the social services and it states that she is his 24 hr supervisor not his carer, so my impression of this is she is not allowed to take him to her house without my daughters permission, the other thing is she is also braking the order as she does not supervise as she is supposed to as my grandson does not sleep in her bedroom but still with mum n dad n she is also not present when he is being bathed,
If anyone has any experience in this are they able to answer a couple of questions,
My daughter now wants me and my husband to be supervisor (she only agreed to her as she was pushed into it by the ex) is this possible?
And is the ex's mum allowed to just take the baby to hers if my daughter says no,
sorry for the long post
Any help is gratefully received xxx
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