legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

[bobs2405]

Re: legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

hi every1 hope yr all ok some new stuffs happened an not sure how to play it she's told me she does not want me to contribute to the kids financially so i told her that i would open up a bank account for both the kids and all i need is their birth certificates as i went round there today she has said i can't have them and they are round her mothers and we will discuss it at mediationi think she's only doin it to try and get me to have a argument with her but i didn't bite i just said ok thats fine we can discuss it then

[MissFM]

Re: legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

hi every1 hope yr all ok some new stuffs happened an not sure how to play it she's told me she does not want me to contribute to the kids financially so i told her that i would open up a bank account for both the kids and all i need is their birth certificates as i went round there today she has said i can't have them and they are round her mothers and we will discuss it at mediationi think she's only doin it to try and get me to have a argument with her but i didn't bite i just said ok thats fine we can discuss it then

Hi Bobs

Thanks for your kind PM

Sounds as if you're doing all the right things. I've been offline for a while so I'm guessing there have been further developments - how's it going now?

Hope you're keeping your cool! :tinysmile_twink_t2:

[bobs2405]

Re: legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

hiya def been keeping my cool lol dont let things wind me up no more she's tried to get to me but haven't rised to the bait, been jus trying to carve out a new life for myself and let go of the past which is helping me soooo much

yeah been a few things

the people who deal with the mediation have started to get the ball rolling said the 27th march but ive jus spoken to her and she saying she can't do that day (but justifiable reasons this time)

she wouldnt let me pay my way to the kids but got a bank account sorted now managed to do it with out the birth certificates, finding her to be very hypocritical but im dealing with it in a much better way now lol

but all in all things are progressing very well and im finally starting to feel happy

[MissFM]

Re: legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

hiya def been keeping my cool lol dont let things wind me up no more she's tried to get to me but haven't rised to the bait, been jus trying to carve out a new life for myself and let go of the past which is helping me soooo much

yeah been a few things

the people who deal with the mediation have started to get the ball rolling said the 27th march but ive jus spoken to her and she saying she can't do that day (but justifiable reasons this time)

she wouldnt let me pay my way to the kids but got a bank account sorted now managed to do it with out the birth certificates, finding her to be very hypocritical but im dealing with it in a much better way now lol

but all in all things are progressing very well and im finally starting to feel happy

That's brilliant news Bobs! Very, very well done.

Once your ex realises that you're not her enemy, not a threat and that you're both on the same side (the children's side), whether you're an "item" or not, then I'm sure things will get easier all round.

Am keeping everything crossed for you all!:tinysmile_twink_t2:

[bobs2405]

Re: legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

thank you so much miss fm

[MissFM]

Re: legal rights for xmas and birthdays please help

You are most welcome, Bobs