i recently split up with the mother of my children, one is biologically mine and the other is my step daughter, me and the mother have came up with a amicable arrangement for contact which i am very happy about.
the problem im facing now is she has totally changed the arrangement i had with her regarding xmas and has told me that this is the way it will be every year, i am totally against this as i see it only fair that if she has them on xmas day one year the following year they should be with me but she is resisting this do i have any legal standing to make her change her mind?
also what is my options regarding my step daughter involving her being with me as i would like not split them up, im also worried that she will start using birthdays as another form of getting to me would u suggest that i take this matter to court?
many thanks
the problem im facing now is she has totally changed the arrangement i had with her regarding xmas and has told me that this is the way it will be every year, i am totally against this as i see it only fair that if she has them on xmas day one year the following year they should be with me but she is resisting this do i have any legal standing to make her change her mind?
also what is my options regarding my step daughter involving her being with me as i would like not split them up, im also worried that she will start using birthdays as another form of getting to me would u suggest that i take this matter to court?
many thanks
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