Dear All
I posted recently about my forthcoming hearing and hope somebody will indulge my confusion a second time.
I shan't go into the details of the affair, but to say my case has been merged with that of a former colleague. For various reasons, largely personal, my mind is close to made up that I shall shortly withdraw my claim. My erstwhile colleague, however, is determined to go to tribunal in May. I've told her of my intention and she has asked if I will at least not withdraw until the day before the tribunal or, better still, the morning of. Needless to say she is considering the probability of a last-minute settlement. My plan up until she understandably asked (begged) me to not withdraw was to leave it until, at the latest, the witness statements gave me a better idea of things. Guilt & loyalty then veered me toward the united front she wanted to present until the last minute, but I am concerned that withdrawing on the morning of the hearing might lead the respondent to pursue costs (I was advised on here that a week before wouldn't be a problem, but did not ask about the same day as the hearing).
To further complicate matters, the respondent's solicitor offered a (small) sum to settle a few days ago. They claim it is to avoid ongoing costs, which might well be true, but could equally be a standard ploy, as I'm sure is the 'final offer, you must accept by 5pm tomorrow' part (truly, 5pm 1st March, at which point they assure me the offer will be withdrawn and no further offers made).
Any advice gratefully received. Much as I simply wish to be free of it all, I would like to support my co-claimant, just not at the risk of incurring a cost order should I withdraw on the day. Whether there's any substance to her suspicion that my withdrawal would weaken her claim, it would likely weaken her resolve.
Thanks in advance.
I posted recently about my forthcoming hearing and hope somebody will indulge my confusion a second time.
I shan't go into the details of the affair, but to say my case has been merged with that of a former colleague. For various reasons, largely personal, my mind is close to made up that I shall shortly withdraw my claim. My erstwhile colleague, however, is determined to go to tribunal in May. I've told her of my intention and she has asked if I will at least not withdraw until the day before the tribunal or, better still, the morning of. Needless to say she is considering the probability of a last-minute settlement. My plan up until she understandably asked (begged) me to not withdraw was to leave it until, at the latest, the witness statements gave me a better idea of things. Guilt & loyalty then veered me toward the united front she wanted to present until the last minute, but I am concerned that withdrawing on the morning of the hearing might lead the respondent to pursue costs (I was advised on here that a week before wouldn't be a problem, but did not ask about the same day as the hearing).
To further complicate matters, the respondent's solicitor offered a (small) sum to settle a few days ago. They claim it is to avoid ongoing costs, which might well be true, but could equally be a standard ploy, as I'm sure is the 'final offer, you must accept by 5pm tomorrow' part (truly, 5pm 1st March, at which point they assure me the offer will be withdrawn and no further offers made).
Any advice gratefully received. Much as I simply wish to be free of it all, I would like to support my co-claimant, just not at the risk of incurring a cost order should I withdraw on the day. Whether there's any substance to her suspicion that my withdrawal would weaken her claim, it would likely weaken her resolve.
Thanks in advance.
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