Long story short my son whom is under 18 and in full time college got a weekend job at a big well known franchise store. He very out of character used a customers credit note, this wasn't some criminal mastermind at work but a small amount spent foolishly and he got caught. He fully admitted it straight away and apologised and offered to pay back everything immediately. The investigator said he decided not to call the police but that he would be dismissed or retrained.
He was called in a few days later by a manager and dismissed for fraud and gross misconduct. He was told he would be contacted by the investigator to return anything else and costs. He was eager to pay it all off and put this behind him. A week later he receives a letter from a civil claim demanding payment or court action, this has shocked and distressed him because he has no idea why they did this when he has already offered to pay it all back and was waiting for them to contact him. Now we don't know if they'll call police because although they didn't they can't be trusted to do what they say.
I know what he did was wrong and that he was lucky they didn't call the police, so does he and he has been punished already so the question here isn't about his guilt but about how the store handled this. How do we move forward, will this affect his future credit score? Can I ask the employers to withdraw so he can pay the costs as arranged previously? Will this be marked on his record anywhere.
Also he has finally come clean to me to why he did this, it's very out of character for him and its due to pressures and treatment at work which I will ask about later, right now I'm very concerned about all of this and how it impacts him.
He was called in a few days later by a manager and dismissed for fraud and gross misconduct. He was told he would be contacted by the investigator to return anything else and costs. He was eager to pay it all off and put this behind him. A week later he receives a letter from a civil claim demanding payment or court action, this has shocked and distressed him because he has no idea why they did this when he has already offered to pay it all back and was waiting for them to contact him. Now we don't know if they'll call police because although they didn't they can't be trusted to do what they say.
I know what he did was wrong and that he was lucky they didn't call the police, so does he and he has been punished already so the question here isn't about his guilt but about how the store handled this. How do we move forward, will this affect his future credit score? Can I ask the employers to withdraw so he can pay the costs as arranged previously? Will this be marked on his record anywhere.
Also he has finally come clean to me to why he did this, it's very out of character for him and its due to pressures and treatment at work which I will ask about later, right now I'm very concerned about all of this and how it impacts him.
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