Hi beagles.
Sorry to do this, but my best friend, and woman I class as my sister, is in dire straits.
Firstly a background.
My sister is incredible, I love her very deeply, she has 3 gorgeous, intelligent, wonderful girls what she has raised herself after her pranny of an ex husband did the world a favour and chuffed off!
The girls were emotionally drained and left with abandoment issues, she is also legally disabled (but you call her it at your peril).
As a single mother she claimed help with her rent etc, and has recently been claiming JSA as she was looking for work.
In 2008 roughly she made friends with the man I now call my brother in law, and they slowly became best friends. He was living between his mother and sisters (and whatever sofa's he could fit on) and was trying to put his life together after his marriage break up.
In 2010, he asked my sister could he have mail sent to her house, and collect it once a week, as he was looking for new work and "My mates sofa.. wherever I happen to be that day" didn't look right on the CV.
Later that year they became a couple, but lived apart.
Fast forward to my wedding aniversary (26.10.2012) and they appeared on my door with a card, and said your present isnt wrapped but, just asked D to marry me and she said yes! B-I-L moved in that night, and the next morning D called the Jobcentre and cancelled her claim.
My neice was subjected to some verbal abuse in her road, and was accused of some very petty stuff. D obviously stood by her daughter and the claims were proved to be sour grapes.
3 days later, D gets a letter saying she has been reported for benefit fraud, as B-I-L has been apparently living there continuously for 4 years (news to me and I'm there most days). She was summoned to a meeting and the only evidence of BIL living there is the fact his mail is sent there. No photographs ever surfaced, nothing.
My queiry is, Can she be prosecuted for this? She has literally done nothing wrong and just let her bf have his paycheques sent to her address. He has stayed the occasional night, and has had the odd shower there, but nothing permanant.
All this is a nasty woman trying to save face, what do we do?
Sorry to do this, but my best friend, and woman I class as my sister, is in dire straits.
Firstly a background.
My sister is incredible, I love her very deeply, she has 3 gorgeous, intelligent, wonderful girls what she has raised herself after her pranny of an ex husband did the world a favour and chuffed off!
The girls were emotionally drained and left with abandoment issues, she is also legally disabled (but you call her it at your peril).
As a single mother she claimed help with her rent etc, and has recently been claiming JSA as she was looking for work.
In 2008 roughly she made friends with the man I now call my brother in law, and they slowly became best friends. He was living between his mother and sisters (and whatever sofa's he could fit on) and was trying to put his life together after his marriage break up.
In 2010, he asked my sister could he have mail sent to her house, and collect it once a week, as he was looking for new work and "My mates sofa.. wherever I happen to be that day" didn't look right on the CV.
Later that year they became a couple, but lived apart.
Fast forward to my wedding aniversary (26.10.2012) and they appeared on my door with a card, and said your present isnt wrapped but, just asked D to marry me and she said yes! B-I-L moved in that night, and the next morning D called the Jobcentre and cancelled her claim.
My neice was subjected to some verbal abuse in her road, and was accused of some very petty stuff. D obviously stood by her daughter and the claims were proved to be sour grapes.
3 days later, D gets a letter saying she has been reported for benefit fraud, as B-I-L has been apparently living there continuously for 4 years (news to me and I'm there most days). She was summoned to a meeting and the only evidence of BIL living there is the fact his mail is sent there. No photographs ever surfaced, nothing.
My queiry is, Can she be prosecuted for this? She has literally done nothing wrong and just let her bf have his paycheques sent to her address. He has stayed the occasional night, and has had the odd shower there, but nothing permanant.
All this is a nasty woman trying to save face, what do we do?
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