Hi All
Im new to this and as my girlfriend have recently started looking in to getting a mortgage i am in desperate need of some help.
When i was alot younger i took out a loan with a bank to get a car and pay off my student over draft etc. The bank ended up talking me in to taking more, so much so i had to stop them going even higher. Whilst i was signing the forms and cutting up my old credit cards they talked me into getting a gold card with them. I told them I wasnt responible enough to have one as i had shown. Long story short i ended up getting a 15k loan at the age of 23.
5 years later after never missing a payment i get in to difficulty paying it back ie losing job, relationship breaking down and having to move back home with parents. First thing i did was to tell the bank and asked them if i could defer payment for a month or 2 to give me time to get a job. They declined, i went to a debt councellor who helped me with a budget to send them with what i can afford. They rejected it.. In the end i couldnt keep up with the huge costs they kept adding on and so i gave up (either that or having a nervous break down).
Anyways. 5 years later (current time) I apply for a mortgage and get refused so i check my file. I have a default from the original debtor in june 2008 which i knew about. However, in 2012 the 5th DCA to have bought the debt has put a default on my file every month from then up till this month.
My concern is that i was under the impression that the default should come off this year so i was shocked to see all these defaults starting 4 years after the original default? I havent spoken or aknowledged the debt with anyone other than with the bank and that was nearly 6 years ago. Since then i havent spoken/written to anyone. Im starting to really panic now that i will never get a mortgage and this will haunt me for many years.
SInce my original default i have turned my life around, have no debts, pay everything on time and in full so im worried i will never get rid of this hanging over me. Im now 32 and so scared il never be able to move on
Im new to this and as my girlfriend have recently started looking in to getting a mortgage i am in desperate need of some help.
When i was alot younger i took out a loan with a bank to get a car and pay off my student over draft etc. The bank ended up talking me in to taking more, so much so i had to stop them going even higher. Whilst i was signing the forms and cutting up my old credit cards they talked me into getting a gold card with them. I told them I wasnt responible enough to have one as i had shown. Long story short i ended up getting a 15k loan at the age of 23.
5 years later after never missing a payment i get in to difficulty paying it back ie losing job, relationship breaking down and having to move back home with parents. First thing i did was to tell the bank and asked them if i could defer payment for a month or 2 to give me time to get a job. They declined, i went to a debt councellor who helped me with a budget to send them with what i can afford. They rejected it.. In the end i couldnt keep up with the huge costs they kept adding on and so i gave up (either that or having a nervous break down).
Anyways. 5 years later (current time) I apply for a mortgage and get refused so i check my file. I have a default from the original debtor in june 2008 which i knew about. However, in 2012 the 5th DCA to have bought the debt has put a default on my file every month from then up till this month.
My concern is that i was under the impression that the default should come off this year so i was shocked to see all these defaults starting 4 years after the original default? I havent spoken or aknowledged the debt with anyone other than with the bank and that was nearly 6 years ago. Since then i havent spoken/written to anyone. Im starting to really panic now that i will never get a mortgage and this will haunt me for many years.
SInce my original default i have turned my life around, have no debts, pay everything on time and in full so im worried i will never get rid of this hanging over me. Im now 32 and so scared il never be able to move on
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