Hi all.
I posted the following on moneysavingexpert.com and natweststaffmember asked me to repost it here, as you are fantastic for advice
sooo.... please if anyone can help me - I'm on the verge of a charges avalanche that may mean I can't afford food or utilities....
Ok. Background.
I have three disabled children. Autism and mobility issues.
I have been carer to my eldest (in receipt of carers allowance) for the past two years. DH was in full time employment (although working evenings and weekends to enable him to help me care for the kids too).
DH lost his job in June, he is now registered as our middle child's carer. We get income support to top up our money. Thing is he has to be choosy about the job he gets - he is still looking for work but as he needs evenings/weekends and to be free during the week to help me then JSA was a bit restrictive.
Now, we applied for the carers for him in July, but he won't be paid until 27th October - we'll get a nice lump sum then though thankfully.
So, bills are tight and unfortunately the safety buffer we had on our account has disappeared as we've needed the money for essentials.
On Friday last week Natwest let four direct debits through four days early. I say that as I've checked with online banking and none of the direct debits put through have EVER gone through before the 15th of the month.
Of these four, they bounced three and charged £38 a pop. They did pay one of the direct debits but charged me £30 to do that. They also put a cheque through that I genuinely forgot about (so yes that was my fault). They charged another £30 for that. Then I got a £28 charge for being over my overdraft limit. So.... that's £202 of charges already. These will be taken out on the 25th of this month.
Then, we have a loan with Natwest that is due out on the 20th. They have said they will take this money on the 18th as the 20th is a Sunday. Problem is that because we've had no money since Friday we needed to buy bread, milk and butter.... and fuel to get my daughter to see her consultant tomorrow (can't cancel, he's coming down from London and her renal function urgently needs to be checked). That means we're a few pounds short of the loan payment. I asked them to consider putting the loan through two days later, they refused. They're going to bounce it and charge me £38 then put it through two days later anyway. Then three days later there will be £240 charges and there won't be the money to pay that, then the debit interest and there won't be the money to pay that.....
It's snowballing. At this rate we'll have no money for food or to cover the bills. I've not been in the situation where they've had to turn down a payment in YEARS. I just don't know what to do now.
I feel like every time we're reeling from them charging us then BAM another charge hits us, then it gets worse and worse and worse.....
I posted the following on moneysavingexpert.com and natweststaffmember asked me to repost it here, as you are fantastic for advice
sooo.... please if anyone can help me - I'm on the verge of a charges avalanche that may mean I can't afford food or utilities....
Ok. Background.
I have three disabled children. Autism and mobility issues.
I have been carer to my eldest (in receipt of carers allowance) for the past two years. DH was in full time employment (although working evenings and weekends to enable him to help me care for the kids too).
DH lost his job in June, he is now registered as our middle child's carer. We get income support to top up our money. Thing is he has to be choosy about the job he gets - he is still looking for work but as he needs evenings/weekends and to be free during the week to help me then JSA was a bit restrictive.
Now, we applied for the carers for him in July, but he won't be paid until 27th October - we'll get a nice lump sum then though thankfully.
So, bills are tight and unfortunately the safety buffer we had on our account has disappeared as we've needed the money for essentials.
On Friday last week Natwest let four direct debits through four days early. I say that as I've checked with online banking and none of the direct debits put through have EVER gone through before the 15th of the month.
Of these four, they bounced three and charged £38 a pop. They did pay one of the direct debits but charged me £30 to do that. They also put a cheque through that I genuinely forgot about (so yes that was my fault). They charged another £30 for that. Then I got a £28 charge for being over my overdraft limit. So.... that's £202 of charges already. These will be taken out on the 25th of this month.
Then, we have a loan with Natwest that is due out on the 20th. They have said they will take this money on the 18th as the 20th is a Sunday. Problem is that because we've had no money since Friday we needed to buy bread, milk and butter.... and fuel to get my daughter to see her consultant tomorrow (can't cancel, he's coming down from London and her renal function urgently needs to be checked). That means we're a few pounds short of the loan payment. I asked them to consider putting the loan through two days later, they refused. They're going to bounce it and charge me £38 then put it through two days later anyway. Then three days later there will be £240 charges and there won't be the money to pay that, then the debit interest and there won't be the money to pay that.....
It's snowballing. At this rate we'll have no money for food or to cover the bills. I've not been in the situation where they've had to turn down a payment in YEARS. I just don't know what to do now.
I feel like every time we're reeling from them charging us then BAM another charge hits us, then it gets worse and worse and worse.....
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