i was told to come on here to get help.....
i managed to get my overdraft increased through online banking - they kept increasing the amount every time i went over and never charged me or warned me i was going to my limit....eventually when they realised i had a £3000 overdraft which stupidly i did use....i dont work as im a full time carer to my disabled hubby and when i realised i was allowed to get so much i used it to make life easy for my hubby .......
eventually they asked me to begin paying back but i couldnt afford to so they gave me a loan for over £4000 to pay it off at £50 a month...the interest alone is nearly £1000 too.....
i have been informed that i may have been a victim of misselling?
well now my money has been docked by £70 a week due to my daughter going to college and me losing child benefit now she is 20...i just cannot afford to pay the £50 a month - which is only taking the interest anyway and ill never be free from this debt....my daughter isnt on a course that gives a student grant so she will be getting £30 a week adult learners grant and wont be entitled to benefits so i will obviously helping her out....money is going to be so tight....
any advice would be appreciated...
i do know i was greedy and shouldntve used the money but when you scrimp and save all the time and are offered it you use it to help ease your burden and i was also going through a hard time with my late parents being very ill...this money enabled me to buy comfort....but i was stupid and hold my hands up....
i managed to get my overdraft increased through online banking - they kept increasing the amount every time i went over and never charged me or warned me i was going to my limit....eventually when they realised i had a £3000 overdraft which stupidly i did use....i dont work as im a full time carer to my disabled hubby and when i realised i was allowed to get so much i used it to make life easy for my hubby .......
eventually they asked me to begin paying back but i couldnt afford to so they gave me a loan for over £4000 to pay it off at £50 a month...the interest alone is nearly £1000 too.....
i have been informed that i may have been a victim of misselling?
well now my money has been docked by £70 a week due to my daughter going to college and me losing child benefit now she is 20...i just cannot afford to pay the £50 a month - which is only taking the interest anyway and ill never be free from this debt....my daughter isnt on a course that gives a student grant so she will be getting £30 a week adult learners grant and wont be entitled to benefits so i will obviously helping her out....money is going to be so tight....
any advice would be appreciated...
i do know i was greedy and shouldntve used the money but when you scrimp and save all the time and are offered it you use it to help ease your burden and i was also going through a hard time with my late parents being very ill...this money enabled me to buy comfort....but i was stupid and hold my hands up....
Comment