I have has depression on and off for over 40 years. I know how to cope with it but sometimes it can be too much. I have had experience a year or so ago where a visit from a bailiff sent me over the edge, I took a packing knife from my shop in front of him and walked away. I cut my left wrist several times though not too seriously came around to my senses and saw my doctor. The bailiff waited for my wife and daughter and charges for the time.
For my latest episode I saw High Court Collections from Market Rasen, even though these two jokers were from Ashford in Kent, a few months back over a debt. The debt wasn't a surprise but the way the company have dealt with it seems excessive. It got resolved badly. My wife was not too happy and my mental state at the time was rocky to say the least. I did get into my head that that was it with my wife, it wasn't but that was the way it seemed. I had told these two i did have mental health problems and seeing bailiffs or whatever they are was not helpful. They did manage to squeeze a£1000 from us - from my wife and my youngest son chipped in. My state of mind went and I went indoors, got a kitchen knife and walked off past these two men and stayed away for the night and the best part of the next day. Not a pleasant experience and could of ended badly. I did inform the company who had set this in motion what had happened and it got back to these two.
Last Thursday I was visited by these two again at my shop, which is the cause of most of my problems. To reduce tension I am in the process of closing the business. Not an easy decision but one I had to do. Anyway, one came into my shop and started talking loudly about things with one of my shop neighbours in the shop. He then started that he wanted money and so on. Managed to sort something out, not to my liking, but anything to get rid of him. He kept referring back to his partner who was sitting in a van - probably charged to me. He said that his partner wanted to see me. I met them outside my shop. The other man smiled and then opened his left hand and showed me a retractable stanley knife and asked if i needed to borrow it and obvious reference to the last time. It may of been his idea of a joke but it was not funny. He made a disparaging remark about our house having a new front door, that if we can afford that we can pay this. I explained that the door was paid for by money my wife had received from her late father just before he died at the end of May specifically for that purpose. The debt is on the business anyway not home so it is none of his business. Then he made a remark about my wife being frightening. She was not happy the day they called around previously - really it was the first time she has really lost it with me in thirty years of marriage - but it soon passed. She is a lower school teacher and as gentle as anything.
I got rid of both of them before i did something I regretted. I thought that certainly one of them had done wrong. I did some research and basically found out that he had. So far i have written to the Company and informed them of what I was doing so back off until things were sorted out. I have written to the Court Manager at Northampton Bulk Court explaining what had happened. I was also told by them not to talk to the company who started this - so i have written to them as well explaining what had happened and that is was under their name they were doing it. I have threatened with the OFT. Is there anything else that i can do?
I acknowledge i owe a debt. I have asked the company who started it that i will pay them what i owe as we have the funds - it is a little more complicated as they, as a publishing company, owe me money through royalties for my book. Their accountant is a bit too trigger happy. I expect that the MD will sort it out.
I am also wary of HCC as the fees they are asking for are bigger than the original debt. I want to hit them where ever I can how I can. I don;t see that they belong to a trade body which is another avenue of action so they seem a real bunch of cowboys. The Court I hope will not be happy.
So really that is my tale. That is what i have done. I just don't want to be alone in fighting this so amy suggestions what i can do let me know. I am currently fighting two developers who want to build retail parks in my town because they believe " the town needs a retail park". I also was at the forefront of fighting Tesco to a standstill so i am not frightened of taking these things on I just have not the skills or knowledge to fight this one. And I still battling depression but I will not let these people take advantage or take the mickey out of what is a serious illness which the collection industry actually contributes to.
Thanks for reading
For my latest episode I saw High Court Collections from Market Rasen, even though these two jokers were from Ashford in Kent, a few months back over a debt. The debt wasn't a surprise but the way the company have dealt with it seems excessive. It got resolved badly. My wife was not too happy and my mental state at the time was rocky to say the least. I did get into my head that that was it with my wife, it wasn't but that was the way it seemed. I had told these two i did have mental health problems and seeing bailiffs or whatever they are was not helpful. They did manage to squeeze a£1000 from us - from my wife and my youngest son chipped in. My state of mind went and I went indoors, got a kitchen knife and walked off past these two men and stayed away for the night and the best part of the next day. Not a pleasant experience and could of ended badly. I did inform the company who had set this in motion what had happened and it got back to these two.
Last Thursday I was visited by these two again at my shop, which is the cause of most of my problems. To reduce tension I am in the process of closing the business. Not an easy decision but one I had to do. Anyway, one came into my shop and started talking loudly about things with one of my shop neighbours in the shop. He then started that he wanted money and so on. Managed to sort something out, not to my liking, but anything to get rid of him. He kept referring back to his partner who was sitting in a van - probably charged to me. He said that his partner wanted to see me. I met them outside my shop. The other man smiled and then opened his left hand and showed me a retractable stanley knife and asked if i needed to borrow it and obvious reference to the last time. It may of been his idea of a joke but it was not funny. He made a disparaging remark about our house having a new front door, that if we can afford that we can pay this. I explained that the door was paid for by money my wife had received from her late father just before he died at the end of May specifically for that purpose. The debt is on the business anyway not home so it is none of his business. Then he made a remark about my wife being frightening. She was not happy the day they called around previously - really it was the first time she has really lost it with me in thirty years of marriage - but it soon passed. She is a lower school teacher and as gentle as anything.
I got rid of both of them before i did something I regretted. I thought that certainly one of them had done wrong. I did some research and basically found out that he had. So far i have written to the Company and informed them of what I was doing so back off until things were sorted out. I have written to the Court Manager at Northampton Bulk Court explaining what had happened. I was also told by them not to talk to the company who started this - so i have written to them as well explaining what had happened and that is was under their name they were doing it. I have threatened with the OFT. Is there anything else that i can do?
I acknowledge i owe a debt. I have asked the company who started it that i will pay them what i owe as we have the funds - it is a little more complicated as they, as a publishing company, owe me money through royalties for my book. Their accountant is a bit too trigger happy. I expect that the MD will sort it out.
I am also wary of HCC as the fees they are asking for are bigger than the original debt. I want to hit them where ever I can how I can. I don;t see that they belong to a trade body which is another avenue of action so they seem a real bunch of cowboys. The Court I hope will not be happy.
So really that is my tale. That is what i have done. I just don't want to be alone in fighting this so amy suggestions what i can do let me know. I am currently fighting two developers who want to build retail parks in my town because they believe " the town needs a retail park". I also was at the forefront of fighting Tesco to a standstill so i am not frightened of taking these things on I just have not the skills or knowledge to fight this one. And I still battling depression but I will not let these people take advantage or take the mickey out of what is a serious illness which the collection industry actually contributes to.
Thanks for reading
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