Hello
I really need some help please if anyone is out there that can find any legal way to help me and my daughter that would be much appreciated.
I opened an account when my daughter was born and directed her child benefit money into that account since I first received it. I couldn’t afford to save for her future at the time and worked 2 jobs to keep a roof over our heads and food in the fridge. Her father left me when she was 1 years old and I’ve had little to no contact with him and she hasn’t either. He knows where I live and I haven’t been obstructive he just wasn’t ready to be a family. Anyway moving on. 14 years later the money amassed to £15k. I didn’t realise when I took the account out that money could be taken out by either one of us I was under the understanding that we both had to sign. This year he removed all the child benefit money £15k and left the account empty. I was horrified. I asked him why he did it and he said he completely ignored me. I made contact with his mother in the hope she could convince him of a moral ground that this was for our daughter not us and he said he told her he borrowed it. I don’t know what to do and I was banking on the money to assist her on her journey through life. Money that I chose not to use for her upbringing so that she could get a lump sum to help her when she needed it. If anyone could help advise what I could do I would be forever grateful
I really need some help please if anyone is out there that can find any legal way to help me and my daughter that would be much appreciated.
I opened an account when my daughter was born and directed her child benefit money into that account since I first received it. I couldn’t afford to save for her future at the time and worked 2 jobs to keep a roof over our heads and food in the fridge. Her father left me when she was 1 years old and I’ve had little to no contact with him and she hasn’t either. He knows where I live and I haven’t been obstructive he just wasn’t ready to be a family. Anyway moving on. 14 years later the money amassed to £15k. I didn’t realise when I took the account out that money could be taken out by either one of us I was under the understanding that we both had to sign. This year he removed all the child benefit money £15k and left the account empty. I was horrified. I asked him why he did it and he said he completely ignored me. I made contact with his mother in the hope she could convince him of a moral ground that this was for our daughter not us and he said he told her he borrowed it. I don’t know what to do and I was banking on the money to assist her on her journey through life. Money that I chose not to use for her upbringing so that she could get a lump sum to help her when she needed it. If anyone could help advise what I could do I would be forever grateful
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