Good evening
Recently I was apprehended for shoplifting, I've never committed a crime and was in a very bad place financially and made a very silly choice.
The items I was apprehended with were all taken back and were fully reusable so they haven't lost out on goods (which doesn't make it any less a bad thing I know) but they are trying recover security costs.
An in-store detective stopped me at the door and took me to the back of the shop, there the manager came and informed me of a lifetime ban, I fully accepted that there may be follow-up in the form of a fine from the police (even though no police were called)
Due to financial struggles and life issues which I won't bore people with I put myself in this situation by stealing I am truly ashamed of my actions.
I still own a property with my ex as we haven't sorted out our divorce but she lives there with my children, I have had to move in with family but the address on my driver's license they looked at when checking my details is the house I still own with my ex
Upon reading many posts it seems that the general rule is to ignore DWF, however, natural human concern does make me want to check some details.
Many posts state ignoring the letters but I haven't seen many saying about resolution if they did
Is it likely they would come to the property as my ex is none the wiser and I'm concerned she may try to use it against me if they did.
People mentioned threats of it affecting credit rating but as far as I can see this is all a bluff.
I'm just concerned that if I do ignore their demand I could be causing myself loads more issues.
Really appreciate any help on this
I've attached a copy of the letter received.
Recently I was apprehended for shoplifting, I've never committed a crime and was in a very bad place financially and made a very silly choice.
The items I was apprehended with were all taken back and were fully reusable so they haven't lost out on goods (which doesn't make it any less a bad thing I know) but they are trying recover security costs.
An in-store detective stopped me at the door and took me to the back of the shop, there the manager came and informed me of a lifetime ban, I fully accepted that there may be follow-up in the form of a fine from the police (even though no police were called)
Due to financial struggles and life issues which I won't bore people with I put myself in this situation by stealing I am truly ashamed of my actions.
I still own a property with my ex as we haven't sorted out our divorce but she lives there with my children, I have had to move in with family but the address on my driver's license they looked at when checking my details is the house I still own with my ex
Upon reading many posts it seems that the general rule is to ignore DWF, however, natural human concern does make me want to check some details.
Many posts state ignoring the letters but I haven't seen many saying about resolution if they did
Is it likely they would come to the property as my ex is none the wiser and I'm concerned she may try to use it against me if they did.
People mentioned threats of it affecting credit rating but as far as I can see this is all a bluff.
I'm just concerned that if I do ignore their demand I could be causing myself loads more issues.
Really appreciate any help on this
I've attached a copy of the letter received.
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