I recently received a letter from a debt collector trying to chase an extremely old debt from around 15-16years ago. At the time, things were awful, I ended up havinga bit of a break down after my partner of 16-years was made redundant 3 times in 18 months and was trying to pay everything on my own very small wage and raise two small children. Something had to give so we had a roof over our head and I paid the rent/Council Tax and utility bills and food but I ended up defaulting on my bank loan. I tried wriitng to the collectors at the time offering small amounts but my offers were completely ignored. Due to all of this and the stress of everything, my partner of 16 years and I split up and I moved out of the family home with the children and moved several times in the process. My ex promised to sort the bills including the debt as he since got a new job and I had been carrying it all myself for a very long time.
Now all the years later, I keep being written to. My ex partner has since married again and we do not talk. I have been alone until 4 years ago when I got married and settled in Devon over 10-years ago.
I looked up information and saw that this should actually be status barred, but I am just not sure exactly how this works. Today, I got a hand whardly manaritten note through the door and I am scarred. I work for the NHS and am on a small wage and hardly manage to get through month to month as it is as times are so hard and expensive at the moment.
What do I do? Please help me with some helpful advice, I cannot stand the stress and haven't got anything to give.
Now all the years later, I keep being written to. My ex partner has since married again and we do not talk. I have been alone until 4 years ago when I got married and settled in Devon over 10-years ago.
I looked up information and saw that this should actually be status barred, but I am just not sure exactly how this works. Today, I got a hand whardly manaritten note through the door and I am scarred. I work for the NHS and am on a small wage and hardly manage to get through month to month as it is as times are so hard and expensive at the moment.
What do I do? Please help me with some helpful advice, I cannot stand the stress and haven't got anything to give.
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