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This is just to say thanks for all the support everyone gave me around my daughter last year.
And to give an update.
As some of you know, Kya and Anashia moved in to a house at the end of my street (although I am no longer there). She had her core network of friends who visited, took her out and sometimes stayed. No mad parties.
She decorated it beautifully and keeps it clean and tidy.
The drugs slowed down, she hasn't touched cocaine since the aftermath of Will's death, and now rarely uses cannabis, also she usually only drinks when she goes out and rarely to the state she did.
At the moment she is wanting to move because there is no garden where she is, nor children of Anashia's age for her to play with. This time there is no rush though, so she has time to find something she really wants.
After all that awful housing stuff that went on, I am so glad she is no longer there - there police are still being called, the close is a mess, so proves it wasn't her!
Kya has also found a job!!
The first in eight years (since Anashia was born). She is loving it. She is in a furniture store and had quite a bit of training. She says that with the benefits she still gets - family tax credit etc - she has never had so much money!
My broken, devastated daughter has grown into a beautiful, mature young lady whom I am so proud of.
I am constantly amazed by her and her strength.
Kya still has dark days, but not often. She says she has noticed that when something significant happens - like she goes somewhere she and Will used to go, or somewhere he would have liked, a job interview etc - one of the songs she played when he died comes on the radio; and she constantly see's white moths. She says she takes these as signs of him being there and it gives her some comfort.
She has been on a few dates, but says she isn't ready for a relationship.
I enjoy her company - WOW!!!!
She is a great mum, looking out for Anashia without being overprotective. She used to be either letting Anashia get away with things or wanting to cover her in cotton wool, depending on her state of mind.
Anashia still misses Will and talks about him sometimes. She says she would like "mummy to fall inlove with someone just like Will".
Not too sure about that myself, although his good side was lovely and he adored both of them
During all the heart ache I had loads of support from here and cag, both on the threads and in PM's, particularly Sharon and Claude.
I just want to say thank you to everyone.
I don't know what else to say, but I owe so much to the wonderful friends I have found here.
You have been amazing and I love you
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
And to give an update.
As some of you know, Kya and Anashia moved in to a house at the end of my street (although I am no longer there). She had her core network of friends who visited, took her out and sometimes stayed. No mad parties.
She decorated it beautifully and keeps it clean and tidy.
The drugs slowed down, she hasn't touched cocaine since the aftermath of Will's death, and now rarely uses cannabis, also she usually only drinks when she goes out and rarely to the state she did.
At the moment she is wanting to move because there is no garden where she is, nor children of Anashia's age for her to play with. This time there is no rush though, so she has time to find something she really wants.
After all that awful housing stuff that went on, I am so glad she is no longer there - there police are still being called, the close is a mess, so proves it wasn't her!
Kya has also found a job!!
The first in eight years (since Anashia was born). She is loving it. She is in a furniture store and had quite a bit of training. She says that with the benefits she still gets - family tax credit etc - she has never had so much money!
My broken, devastated daughter has grown into a beautiful, mature young lady whom I am so proud of.
I am constantly amazed by her and her strength.
Kya still has dark days, but not often. She says she has noticed that when something significant happens - like she goes somewhere she and Will used to go, or somewhere he would have liked, a job interview etc - one of the songs she played when he died comes on the radio; and she constantly see's white moths. She says she takes these as signs of him being there and it gives her some comfort.
She has been on a few dates, but says she isn't ready for a relationship.
I enjoy her company - WOW!!!!
She is a great mum, looking out for Anashia without being overprotective. She used to be either letting Anashia get away with things or wanting to cover her in cotton wool, depending on her state of mind.
Anashia still misses Will and talks about him sometimes. She says she would like "mummy to fall inlove with someone just like Will".
Not too sure about that myself, although his good side was lovely and he adored both of them
During all the heart ache I had loads of support from here and cag, both on the threads and in PM's, particularly Sharon and Claude.
I just want to say thank you to everyone.
I don't know what else to say, but I owe so much to the wonderful friends I have found here.
You have been amazing and I love you
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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