Hoping for advice please on best way forwards...
Parent passed away earlier this year and the will is in solicitors strong room.
2 executors - me and sibling (S)
S walked out of the house 7 years ago with "your problem now, nothing to do with me" and hasn't responded to any comms since..until about 5 weeks ago.
Solicitor refused to release the will to me as they said they needed siblings agreement.
Eventually via a newspaper announcement i got a phone number for S and called but no response,, messaged with details to contact solicitor which S did but has not agreed to where the will should go.
Solicitors are adamant that the will cannot be released without both our agreement but S has not replied to any messages or calls.
Spoke to Probate registry and they said the solicitor can send the will direct to them...solicitor is still requiring both our agreement so has not sent the will.
I have messaged S with asking to agree to have will sent to me - I was, for previous 6 years, the appointed deputy for financial matters of parent.
S has had no contact in those years, no care home visits, no comms or cards.
There is only money left,, no property or trust .
The beneficiaries are me and S 50/50.
'Frustration' would be one word for it when i have laid all the details out to S and still no reply.
I have no other contact details than the phone number and S has provided ID to solicitor but nothing more.
Q - Should the solicitor be able to release the will to Probate registry?
If S is maintaining silence and I have no address do I need to engage someone to perform an intense search (e.g. PI)?
and then serve some kind of letter,, and what could I do for that to progress?
tbh, the money is neither here nor there but I do want closure and to move on
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
thanks
Parent passed away earlier this year and the will is in solicitors strong room.
2 executors - me and sibling (S)
S walked out of the house 7 years ago with "your problem now, nothing to do with me" and hasn't responded to any comms since..until about 5 weeks ago.
Solicitor refused to release the will to me as they said they needed siblings agreement.
Eventually via a newspaper announcement i got a phone number for S and called but no response,, messaged with details to contact solicitor which S did but has not agreed to where the will should go.
Solicitors are adamant that the will cannot be released without both our agreement but S has not replied to any messages or calls.
Spoke to Probate registry and they said the solicitor can send the will direct to them...solicitor is still requiring both our agreement so has not sent the will.
I have messaged S with asking to agree to have will sent to me - I was, for previous 6 years, the appointed deputy for financial matters of parent.
S has had no contact in those years, no care home visits, no comms or cards.
There is only money left,, no property or trust .
The beneficiaries are me and S 50/50.
'Frustration' would be one word for it when i have laid all the details out to S and still no reply.
I have no other contact details than the phone number and S has provided ID to solicitor but nothing more.
Q - Should the solicitor be able to release the will to Probate registry?
If S is maintaining silence and I have no address do I need to engage someone to perform an intense search (e.g. PI)?
and then serve some kind of letter,, and what could I do for that to progress?
tbh, the money is neither here nor there but I do want closure and to move on
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
thanks
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