Bit of a backstory - My mum and step Dad were married for 30 years. In January 2020 they had to be separated as my step Dad's dementia advanced and he could no longer care for her (her carer) or himself and they were both placed in a care home to meet their individual needs. His son had acquired LPA a few months beforehand. Due to the pandemic they were not able to be reunited, although kept in touch with phone calls and letters.
My Step Dad died in Oct 2020 - His son called my mum and explained that he would 'sort everything' including the funeral. Mum was limited in terms of what she could do. Mum then caught Covid and was hospitalised so couldn't attend the funeral. The step son told my mum that there was no will, she would get everything under intestacy, but did say that letter of wishes were found with his possessions at the care home.
A few months later Mum called the step son to ask what was going on - the son told her to sort it out herself and she called the bank to see if they had been notified. The bank must have called the step son as he called (and was furious) that she was meddling. My mum asked him to communicate by post to save arguments. This week Mum got a letter and a copy of a 'will' from the step son.
What's the best course of action here? We seem to be getting lots of brick walls as the home won't speak to us, give us the witness details or info about mental capacity - even though my mum is next of kin!
Thank you for your advice.
My Step Dad died in Oct 2020 - His son called my mum and explained that he would 'sort everything' including the funeral. Mum was limited in terms of what she could do. Mum then caught Covid and was hospitalised so couldn't attend the funeral. The step son told my mum that there was no will, she would get everything under intestacy, but did say that letter of wishes were found with his possessions at the care home.
A few months later Mum called the step son to ask what was going on - the son told her to sort it out herself and she called the bank to see if they had been notified. The bank must have called the step son as he called (and was furious) that she was meddling. My mum asked him to communicate by post to save arguments. This week Mum got a letter and a copy of a 'will' from the step son.
- The will states that everything should be divided between his two children (including jewellery and sentimental objects) and only 20% of his bank savings should go to my mum
- The will nominates the son as executor
- The homemade printed will was dated in July ( During lockdown), and signed by two carers who were looking after him at the time
- The full names and address are not on just the first initial and last name and signature.
- The 'will' was found in my step Dad's things by one of the carers that had signed and this was the person who handed the document over to the step son
- Both witnesses have now left employment at the care home
- The care home no nothing of a request to create or witness a will (this is against policy) and when told were horrified explaining that they very much doubt he had capacity to instruct or understand. They were not notified that it was found either.
What's the best course of action here? We seem to be getting lots of brick walls as the home won't speak to us, give us the witness details or info about mental capacity - even though my mum is next of kin!
Thank you for your advice.
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