One of my siblings and I are executors dealing with our parent's estate. We have a solicitor, but my co-executor's behaviour means that no opinion on division of assets is forthcoming on the grounds that it would be advising one of us aganst the other.
We are now at the stage of dividing the assets, which seems likely to result in the estate being put on hold (not sure what the legal term is), due to my co-executor's unreasonable demands and obstinacy in the face of facts that are simply ignored and my refusal to give in. If you want an idea of the kind of logic and reasoning that I am faced with, check out Monty Python's Argument sketch on Youtube, especially the part with John Cleese and Michael Palin!
Each beneficiary now has the option of taking an equal part of an investment portfolio; either the cash value or by opening our own accounts with the same firm.
I am assuming that if we all choose to take the cash, the proceeds would remain part of the estate, and would go into the solicitor's client account until my co-executor and I agree on distribution of the entire estate. This would suit the two of my well-heeled siblings who have been causing all the problems and allow them to use it as leverage to continue pressing their demands and increase our solicitor's bill, which is already many times the original estimate.
To try and avoid this, I am considering an investment account that is classed as low risk and a stockbroker or sales person who I spoke to said that once the papers were signed and the account set up, I would have full control of it, but I have to wonder if that will really be the case in my situation. All being well, I assume that the other beneficiaries would also be entitled to their corresponding cash before the rest of the estate is agreed on.
So my question is, once my co-executor and I have signed the forms for disbursing the investment portfolio, if I choose the investment option, is there any way for my co-executor to prevent my access to the capital in it, on the grounds that we have not yet agreed on the rest of the estate or any other grounds for that matter?
Hope someone can advise - at the moment I can't even ask for my executoring expenses back without risking more arguments and I need a break!
We are now at the stage of dividing the assets, which seems likely to result in the estate being put on hold (not sure what the legal term is), due to my co-executor's unreasonable demands and obstinacy in the face of facts that are simply ignored and my refusal to give in. If you want an idea of the kind of logic and reasoning that I am faced with, check out Monty Python's Argument sketch on Youtube, especially the part with John Cleese and Michael Palin!
Each beneficiary now has the option of taking an equal part of an investment portfolio; either the cash value or by opening our own accounts with the same firm.
I am assuming that if we all choose to take the cash, the proceeds would remain part of the estate, and would go into the solicitor's client account until my co-executor and I agree on distribution of the entire estate. This would suit the two of my well-heeled siblings who have been causing all the problems and allow them to use it as leverage to continue pressing their demands and increase our solicitor's bill, which is already many times the original estimate.
To try and avoid this, I am considering an investment account that is classed as low risk and a stockbroker or sales person who I spoke to said that once the papers were signed and the account set up, I would have full control of it, but I have to wonder if that will really be the case in my situation. All being well, I assume that the other beneficiaries would also be entitled to their corresponding cash before the rest of the estate is agreed on.
So my question is, once my co-executor and I have signed the forms for disbursing the investment portfolio, if I choose the investment option, is there any way for my co-executor to prevent my access to the capital in it, on the grounds that we have not yet agreed on the rest of the estate or any other grounds for that matter?
Hope someone can advise - at the moment I can't even ask for my executoring expenses back without risking more arguments and I need a break!
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