Hello, I would appreciate some advice on a problem I have encountered whilst trying to apply for probate for my late Father.
I am co-executor with my brother but we haven't really had much to do with each other for years ( I think Dad thought doing this would help the brother/sister bond) My brother took charge of probate when Mum died as I was busy looking after Dad and was happy to leave him to it but unfortunately, I had some serious concerns regarding his handling of the process. However, as it was upsetting Dad, I didn't take things any further.
My brother initially wanted to act alone dealing with Dad's estate but agreed to act with me when I said no to him doing it on his own. He then decided I could act alone and he would keep power reserved. The next thing I get is a letter from his solicitor saying that they had been instructed by my brother to assist me with the process as he couldn't work with me because of "issues" between us. I still have no idea what they are. Anyway, initially they wanted me to appoint the solicitor as my attorney as it would make things easier for me, apparently - I said no to that one, as not only do I want to do this for Dad but it's also a very simple estate. Dad was in a care home for some years before he died, there are only various accounts and investments to collect into the estate and, as I had been his attorney for some 10 years up until his death, I'm fully conversant with his financial situation.
The solicitor has continued to try and pressure me into giving up my executor role and when I have put forward suggestions for moving things forward, I act with them, we both appoint an independent third party to deal with the estate etc, my offers are rejected without any reason as to why other than saying their client doesn't agree. We did reach a point a month ago where the solicitor advised that my brother agreed I could act alone, with him having power reserved, on the proviso that I would pay the estate monies into their Client Account for them to distribute. I agreed, thinking this would at least get things moving but then, in the next breath, I'm told that they also wanted to complete the application and collect the monies, so in other words do everything and so I'm back to square one. The other concern I have is that they are very reluctant to give me any idea as to what this is going to cost the estate, saying they wont know until they've completed the application by which time I feel it would be too late to contest their fee if they've already started working on the case but perhaps this is normal for probate?
I feel that I have been penned into a corner and will have to use their services, even though i haven't had a choice over instructing them. They are also the solicitor my parents used to draw up their Wills and so are holding my Dad's Will. I have asked for it, as I had completed the probate application and IHT forms some months back before things blew up and all I needed was the Will and could then have sent the application off but they refused to release either the original Will or provide me with a certified copy, stating that their client wouldn't allow them to release it unless I agreed to their "assistance". I then asked for just an ordinary copy so I could at least check the situation regarding beneficiaries etc, as I only have a draft of the Will, not an executed copy but again, they will not provide one to me.
I do apologise for this lengthy tale of woe but my question is, as an executor, do I have a right to be given a copy of the Will and if so, how should I go about exercising that right?
Any advice would be very much appreciated, thank you.
I am co-executor with my brother but we haven't really had much to do with each other for years ( I think Dad thought doing this would help the brother/sister bond) My brother took charge of probate when Mum died as I was busy looking after Dad and was happy to leave him to it but unfortunately, I had some serious concerns regarding his handling of the process. However, as it was upsetting Dad, I didn't take things any further.
My brother initially wanted to act alone dealing with Dad's estate but agreed to act with me when I said no to him doing it on his own. He then decided I could act alone and he would keep power reserved. The next thing I get is a letter from his solicitor saying that they had been instructed by my brother to assist me with the process as he couldn't work with me because of "issues" between us. I still have no idea what they are. Anyway, initially they wanted me to appoint the solicitor as my attorney as it would make things easier for me, apparently - I said no to that one, as not only do I want to do this for Dad but it's also a very simple estate. Dad was in a care home for some years before he died, there are only various accounts and investments to collect into the estate and, as I had been his attorney for some 10 years up until his death, I'm fully conversant with his financial situation.
The solicitor has continued to try and pressure me into giving up my executor role and when I have put forward suggestions for moving things forward, I act with them, we both appoint an independent third party to deal with the estate etc, my offers are rejected without any reason as to why other than saying their client doesn't agree. We did reach a point a month ago where the solicitor advised that my brother agreed I could act alone, with him having power reserved, on the proviso that I would pay the estate monies into their Client Account for them to distribute. I agreed, thinking this would at least get things moving but then, in the next breath, I'm told that they also wanted to complete the application and collect the monies, so in other words do everything and so I'm back to square one. The other concern I have is that they are very reluctant to give me any idea as to what this is going to cost the estate, saying they wont know until they've completed the application by which time I feel it would be too late to contest their fee if they've already started working on the case but perhaps this is normal for probate?
I feel that I have been penned into a corner and will have to use their services, even though i haven't had a choice over instructing them. They are also the solicitor my parents used to draw up their Wills and so are holding my Dad's Will. I have asked for it, as I had completed the probate application and IHT forms some months back before things blew up and all I needed was the Will and could then have sent the application off but they refused to release either the original Will or provide me with a certified copy, stating that their client wouldn't allow them to release it unless I agreed to their "assistance". I then asked for just an ordinary copy so I could at least check the situation regarding beneficiaries etc, as I only have a draft of the Will, not an executed copy but again, they will not provide one to me.
I do apologise for this lengthy tale of woe but my question is, as an executor, do I have a right to be given a copy of the Will and if so, how should I go about exercising that right?
Any advice would be very much appreciated, thank you.
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