Hi,
My friend has just split from her partner of 10 years (2 children together, not married).
He was financially controlling and a bully.
She stupidly took out a credit card in his name for £1000 the end of last year, she has repayed it in full. He is not aware of this at all.
She also used his catalogue account and has an outstanding balance of approx £500. He has found out about this. He is furious she has done this behind his back. She has said she would repay the £500 as fast as she could. He said it doesn't matter about the money it's what she's done. He said he wouldn't go to police.
However, if he now goes to check his credit file, he will also see the credit card she had.
What should she do? Tell him about the credit card? Report herself to police? She is concerned he will hold this over her and control her and children. Just keep apologising and hope he doesn't take further action?
If he does decide to report to police, how will she be punished? What will she be charged with? identity fraud? I am hoping for her sake and the children's, if he does report her, with the amount not being too high and most of it repaid, and the fact that they were living together with children she may not get punished too severely..
Please advise.
My friend has just split from her partner of 10 years (2 children together, not married).
He was financially controlling and a bully.
She stupidly took out a credit card in his name for £1000 the end of last year, she has repayed it in full. He is not aware of this at all.
She also used his catalogue account and has an outstanding balance of approx £500. He has found out about this. He is furious she has done this behind his back. She has said she would repay the £500 as fast as she could. He said it doesn't matter about the money it's what she's done. He said he wouldn't go to police.
However, if he now goes to check his credit file, he will also see the credit card she had.
What should she do? Tell him about the credit card? Report herself to police? She is concerned he will hold this over her and control her and children. Just keep apologising and hope he doesn't take further action?
If he does decide to report to police, how will she be punished? What will she be charged with? identity fraud? I am hoping for her sake and the children's, if he does report her, with the amount not being too high and most of it repaid, and the fact that they were living together with children she may not get punished too severely..
Please advise.
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