Hi All,
Hope this is in the right place, looking for some information if possible,
I split up with my ex-girlfriend 18 months ago and we had a mortgage together, we lost a lot of money with the recession so we had about 20k negative equity at the recession point (we didn't have it valued but just went by the house attached to our semi sale price at the time).
We paid 121k for the house when we bought it, paid the mortgage for seven years together and the balance was 104k when we split, the house was probably worth 100k-105k at the time we split up.
The house was a mess and needed a lot of work, rather than break even on a sale or lose money, I said I didn't mind staying and doing some work myself to try and get the value up a bit, I said I would need to get the value up and pay the mortgage off myself for a few years before I could probably get accepted for a mortgage on my own for the balance owed.
I said I would pay her back 6k over a set amount of years, which was kind of the money she had paid into the house (we were interest only for three years) but she would need to keep her name on the mortgage while I paid her off and sorted the house and my finances, which I thought was good for both of us, I got to keep the house and she got her money back.
So I typed up a letter that we both signed, the letter stated that the house had no equity but I was willing to pay her 6k for the house within a maximum of ten years but would aim to do this within 3-5 years provided that she kept her name on the mortgage whilst I was getting myself financially sorted for a mortgage and paying her off. It's been 18 months and I have paid £1400, made up of three labelled bank transfers to her. So i'm on target for the the 3-5 years that I had said I would try to do.
So..... she has had problems with debt and she is not the greatest with spending her own money, I know when we split she had a credit card (I don't think It was secured on the house, but i'm really not sure now) the balance was around 5-6k when we split, I know she went on holiday last year and I also know she doesn't earn that much money, we share our dog and the other day she had a new car (not brand new, but newer than the old) which she said she treated herself to for xmas.
My question is, where do i stand with all this and is there a way I can find out what is secured against the house in her name, I don't really want to paying her buy out payments if she has over 6k secured against the house, she is not the best with payments and has had repossessions before also.
Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated thanks as i really don't want to end up on the bad end of this, I have spent a lot of money on the house over the last 18 months and paid the mortgage on my own.
Please help
Hope this is in the right place, looking for some information if possible,
I split up with my ex-girlfriend 18 months ago and we had a mortgage together, we lost a lot of money with the recession so we had about 20k negative equity at the recession point (we didn't have it valued but just went by the house attached to our semi sale price at the time).
We paid 121k for the house when we bought it, paid the mortgage for seven years together and the balance was 104k when we split, the house was probably worth 100k-105k at the time we split up.
The house was a mess and needed a lot of work, rather than break even on a sale or lose money, I said I didn't mind staying and doing some work myself to try and get the value up a bit, I said I would need to get the value up and pay the mortgage off myself for a few years before I could probably get accepted for a mortgage on my own for the balance owed.
I said I would pay her back 6k over a set amount of years, which was kind of the money she had paid into the house (we were interest only for three years) but she would need to keep her name on the mortgage while I paid her off and sorted the house and my finances, which I thought was good for both of us, I got to keep the house and she got her money back.
So I typed up a letter that we both signed, the letter stated that the house had no equity but I was willing to pay her 6k for the house within a maximum of ten years but would aim to do this within 3-5 years provided that she kept her name on the mortgage whilst I was getting myself financially sorted for a mortgage and paying her off. It's been 18 months and I have paid £1400, made up of three labelled bank transfers to her. So i'm on target for the the 3-5 years that I had said I would try to do.
So..... she has had problems with debt and she is not the greatest with spending her own money, I know when we split she had a credit card (I don't think It was secured on the house, but i'm really not sure now) the balance was around 5-6k when we split, I know she went on holiday last year and I also know she doesn't earn that much money, we share our dog and the other day she had a new car (not brand new, but newer than the old) which she said she treated herself to for xmas.
My question is, where do i stand with all this and is there a way I can find out what is secured against the house in her name, I don't really want to paying her buy out payments if she has over 6k secured against the house, she is not the best with payments and has had repossessions before also.
Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated thanks as i really don't want to end up on the bad end of this, I have spent a lot of money on the house over the last 18 months and paid the mortgage on my own.
Please help
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