* Hi All
This is a request for legal perspective on a personal debt, where the creditor is harassing me and driving me nuts.
Threats include discussing this debt with my family, defaming me with friends, getting his solicitor involved, various pressure tactics and insults. They have threatened to share publicly my private texts to them sent in confidence, which reveal my vulnerable state during the tough phase.
I am out of work and have promised to repay the debt through new loans asap, but the person is adamant on humiliating me and have said they dont care about their money anymore but will teach me a lesson.
Need any advice please. Is it not illegal to discuss debts with family etc? What are my options to make this harassment stop?
Thanks in advance
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Below is advice from another forum- any thoughts?
Talk to the police on 101.
Some pressure is valid even if tawdry. But conduct that becomes oppressive is not acceptable. His admission that this is not actual about money but about humiliation lends credence to an argument this is now simply harassment.
In my view the only acceptable behaviour here would be his threat to see a solicitor. The rest is improper, given the context.
Thanks
(1) I am certainly going to the police as there seems enough grounds to do so.
(2) Meanwhile, can I also send them a "Cease and Desist" letter and remind them of my legal rights ? (I am in England).
(3) Regarding his threat of discussing with family, I want to tell them legally they should stop, can I use any of the following ? :
a) Doesn't the Harassment Act 1997 offer protection for this? The Citizen Advice website also lists the following as harassment : "telling someone else about your debts or using another person to pass on messages, such as a neighbour or family member".
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/de...-by-a-creditor
b) Disucssing with family etc. harms reputation. What is your view on Right to Reputation under article 8 ECHR : "Your right to reputation is enshrined as a human right under Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights (ECHR"
https://www.freeths.co.uk/legal-serv...n-and-privacy/
c) With regards to data protection legislation, would personal texts written solely for the recipient be allowed to be shared with others without my permission? Particularly as they reveal my vulnerable position?
Thanks again
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This is a request for legal perspective on a personal debt, where the creditor is harassing me and driving me nuts.
Threats include discussing this debt with my family, defaming me with friends, getting his solicitor involved, various pressure tactics and insults. They have threatened to share publicly my private texts to them sent in confidence, which reveal my vulnerable state during the tough phase.
I am out of work and have promised to repay the debt through new loans asap, but the person is adamant on humiliating me and have said they dont care about their money anymore but will teach me a lesson.
Need any advice please. Is it not illegal to discuss debts with family etc? What are my options to make this harassment stop?
Thanks in advance
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Below is advice from another forum- any thoughts?
Talk to the police on 101.
Some pressure is valid even if tawdry. But conduct that becomes oppressive is not acceptable. His admission that this is not actual about money but about humiliation lends credence to an argument this is now simply harassment.
In my view the only acceptable behaviour here would be his threat to see a solicitor. The rest is improper, given the context.
Thanks
(1) I am certainly going to the police as there seems enough grounds to do so.
(2) Meanwhile, can I also send them a "Cease and Desist" letter and remind them of my legal rights ? (I am in England).
(3) Regarding his threat of discussing with family, I want to tell them legally they should stop, can I use any of the following ? :
a) Doesn't the Harassment Act 1997 offer protection for this? The Citizen Advice website also lists the following as harassment : "telling someone else about your debts or using another person to pass on messages, such as a neighbour or family member".
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/de...-by-a-creditor
b) Disucssing with family etc. harms reputation. What is your view on Right to Reputation under article 8 ECHR : "Your right to reputation is enshrined as a human right under Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights (ECHR"
https://www.freeths.co.uk/legal-serv...n-and-privacy/
c) With regards to data protection legislation, would personal texts written solely for the recipient be allowed to be shared with others without my permission? Particularly as they reveal my vulnerable position?
Thanks again
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