What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

[labman]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Nope,,not at you labs,,wasn't thinking of anyone when i wrote it,,except people that come on here to get advice then cos it's not what they want to hear,they rip it to shreds

Good! You know me - wee, sensitive beastie! :lol:

[Inca]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Good! You know me - wee, sensitive beastie! :lol:

:ranger:......

[Eloise01]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

But would all women reject the idea of a strong, dominant man taking care of them and, yes, telling them how to behave? I don't believe anyone suggested all women would. But they are also entilted to change their mind about that too.


Even if, in her marriage vows, she had sworn to love, honour and obey her husband? If we wish to go back to the form of the Book of Common Prayer, then fine - the man also promises "with all my wordly goods I thee endow". So it is her house, not his! Obviously, promises made in a ceremony are not legally binding. People do seem to break promises, don't they? When they do it a lot we call them politicians.

Or does that count for naught these days? I am wondering which days it counted for something in?


I agree there, but could the OP lawfully communicate through his lawyer ...? I believe that was one of the suggestions made.

But you already knew all that, didn't you?

[gravytrain]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Nope,,not at you labs,,wasn't thinking of anyone when i wrote it,,except people that come on here to get advice then cos it's not what they want to hear,they rip it to shreds

Some come on here for advice and support and get ripped to sheds themselves though.

This was the first reply our desperate OP received.

Quote Eloise

"Are you for real? You genuinely want to know if you can "go after" someone because there isn't an order saying you shouldn't. The point of the order is that you appear not to realise that you shouldn't be "going after" anyone without a court reminding you of something that you should know anyway! I would suggest that if you cannot have a civilised conversation then you should remain silent and communicate through official channels. You also cannot throw your wife out of the family home no matter how "gentle" your voice is or how much you couch it as a "request""

[Eloise01]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Good! You know me - wee, sensitive beastie! :lol:

We occasionally use other words to describe you! But honest - only behind your back and never in public !

But for the sake of clarity, I think you were included in the "giving time and advice..." - it was a compliment!

[jon1965]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

This thread has been amazing with some amazing points.
I have to agree with Eloise that the OP appeared to be coming on here to see how he could circumnavigate the law.
I also think that he did not portray his values or morals in a very good light, agreed infidelity is not desirable but it is no longer a flogging or hanging offence in this country. Maybe the affair is just an episode and letting off steam or maybe more deep seated than that, either way I can not see the OPs actions being anything other than counter productive.
Maybe the OP fely overwhelmed by the negative attitude he received but hopefully he may have had a long look in the mirror to see what, if anything he could do to make things better

Criticism is hard to take and two delicate flowers on here I want to give a hug to and at least one a swift kick in the nuts to

[gravytrain]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Criticism is hard to take

Indeed

[Celestine]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Interesting piece on the perils of reacting in anger.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/poli...r-divorce.html

Ok, Ok, they are Goldsmiths and they did use Twitter...not that comparable but you get the gist hopefully!

[gravytrain]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Yes it must be very difficult to ensure everything you say is totally PC after such a huge upset.

[labman]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Interesting piece on the perils of reacting in anger.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/poli...r-divorce.html

Ok, Ok, they are Goldsmiths and they did use Twitter...not that comparable but you get the gist hopefully!

Erm........ anyone got an idiots guide to removing tweets? msl:msl:msl:msl:msl:

[FlamingParrot]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Criticism is hard to take and two delicate flowers on here I want to give a hug to and at least one a swift kick in the nuts to

Uhmmmm, I wonder whether one of them is a delicate tulip...
...I think you'll find flowers haven't got such things by the way!

[FlamingParrot]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

I'm glad I have a soulmate Plan B. I often go to type a response. I post it up, fully expecting it to sit neatly in line, only to find it's the best part of a page further on with 5 or 6 posts having already been made, and mine is left looking totally out of context.

This is where quoting comes in, posts without quotes will be out of context unless they sit right next to the post you were replying to. This has happened to me too and in those cases, I've gone back and edited my post to include the relevant quote. :grin:

[Guest]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

Some come on here for advice and support and get ripped to sheds themselves though. Quote Eloise "Are you for real?...etc"

Lol. I'm not too familiar with your posts, Eloise.
But I'm betting bailiffs would stand no chance.

Bailiff on doorstep:
"Are you for real???
OMG!!!
You genuinely want to know if you can "go after" someone because there isn't an order saying you shouldn't!"
~ stunned silence ~
"I would suggest that if you cannot have a civilised conversation then you should remain silent and communicate through official channels"
~ SLAM! ~
Better than FMOL! :rofl:

[labman]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

This is where quoting comes in, posts without quotes will be out of context unless they sit right next to the post you were replying to. This has happened to me too and in those cases, I've gone back and edited my post to include the relevant quote. :grin:

Actually half my posts probably read far better out of context! lol

[jon1965]

Re: What can I do under a Non-Molestation order?

No delicate flowers need a kick the pleasure of that is reserved for someone else