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Keep it short - Wife gaslighted over a number of months, told me I was the reason we were breaking up etc. Turns out she was having an affair with two men (one being a colleague of hers). Once I found out, I immediately told the guys wife who was shocked and obviously upset, and proceeded to put the house under offer etc.
Fast forward to today, I've received an initial letter from her solicitor stating a 'no fault' divorce, and also threatening legal action in relation to me causing her issues in work (I'm assuming it's now leaked out that she had an affair, although hand on heart I can say I have nothing to do with this, I can only assume the wife has reported it).
Since there is no evidence that I have caused her issues in work (since I've not done anything), how do I respond to this? With regards to her phone, this is how I found out about the affairs, however there is no records on my phone as they're suggesting - this is all hearsay that she's advising her solicitor.
Ideally I don't want the expense of instructing a solicitor, as im happy to go ahead with the no fault route (even though it's clearly her fault), and I'm happy to disclose my financial position, as she's in a better position financially than myself.
We have a young kid too, so as you can imagine, it's already been a tough year. Any advice on how I reply to this would be very much appreciated
Fast forward to today, I've received an initial letter from her solicitor stating a 'no fault' divorce, and also threatening legal action in relation to me causing her issues in work (I'm assuming it's now leaked out that she had an affair, although hand on heart I can say I have nothing to do with this, I can only assume the wife has reported it).
Since there is no evidence that I have caused her issues in work (since I've not done anything), how do I respond to this? With regards to her phone, this is how I found out about the affairs, however there is no records on my phone as they're suggesting - this is all hearsay that she's advising her solicitor.
Ideally I don't want the expense of instructing a solicitor, as im happy to go ahead with the no fault route (even though it's clearly her fault), and I'm happy to disclose my financial position, as she's in a better position financially than myself.
We have a young kid too, so as you can imagine, it's already been a tough year. Any advice on how I reply to this would be very much appreciated
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