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The past 4 years has taken its toll, been married almost 25yrs, I'm now living in my bedroom (have done 12 mths)while hubby thinks it's ok to sleep on sofas ( let's his mates too, he knows it's something that really gets my goat) and leave an almighty mess wherever he goes.
the house is in my name, he's always paid bills while I cared for kids/MY mum, he has put us in a lot of debt, I know I should take responsibility....
I'm too nervous to go to mediation with him as he's very volitile....
just don't know first step, my mental heath is really suffering,
ideally I'd like house, he move out and I will have to pay 'OUR DEBTS'
Atm. He's just not confronting things, and soon we will lose house as we 're in arrears.
advice please on any first steps....x
the house is in my name, he's always paid bills while I cared for kids/MY mum, he has put us in a lot of debt, I know I should take responsibility....
I'm too nervous to go to mediation with him as he's very volitile....
just don't know first step, my mental heath is really suffering,
ideally I'd like house, he move out and I will have to pay 'OUR DEBTS'
Atm. He's just not confronting things, and soon we will lose house as we 're in arrears.
advice please on any first steps....x
