non molestation order

[jona2410]

Hi all not sure if anyone can help but my partner serves me with a non molestation order without my presence in court there seems to be no evidence of the claims with the order only her statement she then contacted me the day after how do I contest this when I go to the return court date she has called me from a withheld number and has text me to say she loves me she suffers with ptsd and whenever we argue ita as thoigh she sees her ex who severely abused her menatally and physically what should I take to court I have proof that certain claims are completely un true and any claims of violence have been nfa with police although niether time I was arrested did she actually ask that I be arrested the police took it upon themselves to arrest me can I deal with her solicitors directly and ask that the order be changed without going to court myself or qould I have to go to court as ive read on here that nmo can be a good way to help tumultuous relationships and I wantto reconcile with her and believe accepting an order which may help her as long as the wording Iis right could go someway to showingher not all men are like her ex

[janej]

Re: non molestation order

Hi I have made a complete mess of my life and need help. I had a non molestation order issued against my partner in September. It is the biggest mistake I have every made. I want to have it removed. I got legal aid for it. Will I have to repay all the legal aid back if I apply to have it removed and can I just write a letter to them or do I have to go to court again . Has anyone successfully got one removed ? Any help would be appreciated. Many thanks