Re: Social Workers Lied on Section 7 reports
Apologies Colin, I write in red because I have never ever got to grips with multi quoting on forums in the almost 10 years of being on forums.
In terms of the last part of what you wrote, I've been around a lot of people who would have gone down the route of private prosecutions for perjury but have never seen one person try. I would personally suggest your friend uses the solicitor she has found who thinks they can win to go down that route if they can afford to do so but they must be 100% certain of victory.
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Originally posted by Colin21958
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Totally agree and understand. Is it in the best interests to be taken away from their mother who has done no harm and really, honestly represents no risk at all to them; she is a model parent. She cares for them better than any mother I have ever come across. The statements made by the social worker were completely unfounded, because she decided the father should have the children. Trust me, the evidence when you look at it is overwhelming.
You're not taking one step backwards yet. Believe me it takes a lot to do that. Can you give me an example of this so that I can work out whether this is based on fact or opinion. Try and give as small amount of it as possible so that it does not identify anyone?
Her focus is and always has been on the welfare of the children. If her ex was the better parent she would not complain or fight, but he isn't. He is interested only in saving himself money and if not for the social services report this would have been seen by everyone. Every bit of evidence of this was ignored by the judge because he believed the social workers assessment that he was a better parent. Her focus is not on prosecuting anyone, her focus is on what is best for the children and that would best be served by justice. The social worker perverted the justice and we both now believe that she should be made to answer for that. Naming and shaming her is not going to serve the children's interest, but proving that she is a liar and that she lied in a manner which perverted the course of justice and placed the children in harm should achieve justice for the children.
In terms of her own case, did she ever or was she ever advised about getting a second opinion, ie an independent social worker? Furthermore, was her case based on why her ex was a bad parent or on whether she was a good parent?
The facts in the report, well there are very few FACTS in the report. It is a work of fiction. This is not "interpretation", it can be proved in the report that time and time again she knew "X", which was a material fact, but said "Y" because it supported her story (and also perpetuated these lies in oral evidence). Of course if we prosecute it would I guess be my friend who would have to do that (perhaps on behalf of her children as guardian), as she is the injured party (the children being too young to bring such an action in their own right). I don't think a no win no fee arrangement would be possible, as I don't see there being any monetary compensation, however, if such a thing might be possible then she would obviously take advantage of it. Her concern is not to get money, her concern is to get a court to judge who should have the children FAIRLY, not making a judgement based on lies, as they have done already.
If she has appealed and lost then perhaps she needs to deal with the current situation because I doubt a court would look at another case if it is brought so quickly after one has already been decided, in my honest opinion. Prosecuting a social worker will not change the case unless a new case against the ex is brought in regards to residence.
From this week they are to be collected and dropped off at a school where he has enrolled them (He doesn't want them around the house during the week, so he's sending them to school full time at 2.5 years of age!
The reason I ask about a neutral venue is because that may be better if there is an issue between the mother and father.
Yes, all except speech development. She is Russian born, although she has been a British citizen for about 10 years and lived in the UK for 13 years. She and her parents, who live with her, speak only Russian at home, so the children's Russian speech development is in line with normal development milestones, but their English development is behind, because the only time they would hear it is when with their father; they have, up until now, spent equal time with each parent, but as the au pair is Hungarian, I doubt she speaks much English with them and as the father never speaks to them, this is the reason for their poor English development.
If they are in the UK then the answer might be no in terms of their English language albeit kids can pick up language much faster, the younger they are then later on in life.
He should provide them with love and support, that's the main thing all children need, he will provide for them financially, but he won't squander money, they will only get the basics they need; he is a miser with his money. This he has proved all the time she has known him and indeed was the reason for him wanting custody. If he didn't have to pay he wouldn't have even considered trying to get custody. But the point is, if he had to provide for them it would cost him up to 40% of his salary (which is approaching £20,000 per month), but by having custody he would save most of that, all it costs him at present is the au pair (£200 per week), over and above what he has had to pay my friend up to now; but that will obviously be reduced drastically, instead of increasing as it would have done had she won custody.
It will cost him £1000, roughly, a month plus childcare costs. Is their a maintenance order in place for your friend at the moment?
Of course, but in the meantime they are at risk of being neglected emotionally by the father and since the court have allowed such little contact, they will clearly suffer the pain of missing her.
I am going to say something that may sound harsh and unfortunately, I've learnt a ton of stuff over the last few years. Children tend to form their earliest memory at about 3 or 4 years of age, and whilst, I am not doubting that the changeover in residency, will potentially have negative effects initially, the children may not necessarily have a long term detriment to themselves. As I said, the older that the children are, the more the courts take on their views as to what they want to happen to them.
The court just believed the report and the SW lies; what the SW said and reported was just a pack of lies. It was so biased and contained so many lies (which can be proved without doubt with evidence, otherwise we wouldn't be considering such action against the SW). The children did not witness the domestic violence which actually took place (that against her for which he accepted a police caution and which proves he is a violent and dishonest person, but which was not mentioned in the reports), the allegations he made were false, so did not take place.
It's very difficult to comment on the issue of lies because I know what you are saying is right but without knowing the person and seeing the report it is difficult.
Then this may be the first...
You're not taking one step backwards yet. Believe me it takes a lot to do that. Can you give me an example of this so that I can work out whether this is based on fact or opinion. Try and give as small amount of it as possible so that it does not identify anyone?
Her focus is and always has been on the welfare of the children. If her ex was the better parent she would not complain or fight, but he isn't. He is interested only in saving himself money and if not for the social services report this would have been seen by everyone. Every bit of evidence of this was ignored by the judge because he believed the social workers assessment that he was a better parent. Her focus is not on prosecuting anyone, her focus is on what is best for the children and that would best be served by justice. The social worker perverted the justice and we both now believe that she should be made to answer for that. Naming and shaming her is not going to serve the children's interest, but proving that she is a liar and that she lied in a manner which perverted the course of justice and placed the children in harm should achieve justice for the children.
In terms of her own case, did she ever or was she ever advised about getting a second opinion, ie an independent social worker? Furthermore, was her case based on why her ex was a bad parent or on whether she was a good parent?
The facts in the report, well there are very few FACTS in the report. It is a work of fiction. This is not "interpretation", it can be proved in the report that time and time again she knew "X", which was a material fact, but said "Y" because it supported her story (and also perpetuated these lies in oral evidence). Of course if we prosecute it would I guess be my friend who would have to do that (perhaps on behalf of her children as guardian), as she is the injured party (the children being too young to bring such an action in their own right). I don't think a no win no fee arrangement would be possible, as I don't see there being any monetary compensation, however, if such a thing might be possible then she would obviously take advantage of it. Her concern is not to get money, her concern is to get a court to judge who should have the children FAIRLY, not making a judgement based on lies, as they have done already.
If she has appealed and lost then perhaps she needs to deal with the current situation because I doubt a court would look at another case if it is brought so quickly after one has already been decided, in my honest opinion. Prosecuting a social worker will not change the case unless a new case against the ex is brought in regards to residence.
From this week they are to be collected and dropped off at a school where he has enrolled them (He doesn't want them around the house during the week, so he's sending them to school full time at 2.5 years of age!
The reason I ask about a neutral venue is because that may be better if there is an issue between the mother and father.
Yes, all except speech development. She is Russian born, although she has been a British citizen for about 10 years and lived in the UK for 13 years. She and her parents, who live with her, speak only Russian at home, so the children's Russian speech development is in line with normal development milestones, but their English development is behind, because the only time they would hear it is when with their father; they have, up until now, spent equal time with each parent, but as the au pair is Hungarian, I doubt she speaks much English with them and as the father never speaks to them, this is the reason for their poor English development.
If they are in the UK then the answer might be no in terms of their English language albeit kids can pick up language much faster, the younger they are then later on in life.
He should provide them with love and support, that's the main thing all children need, he will provide for them financially, but he won't squander money, they will only get the basics they need; he is a miser with his money. This he has proved all the time she has known him and indeed was the reason for him wanting custody. If he didn't have to pay he wouldn't have even considered trying to get custody. But the point is, if he had to provide for them it would cost him up to 40% of his salary (which is approaching £20,000 per month), but by having custody he would save most of that, all it costs him at present is the au pair (£200 per week), over and above what he has had to pay my friend up to now; but that will obviously be reduced drastically, instead of increasing as it would have done had she won custody.
It will cost him £1000, roughly, a month plus childcare costs. Is their a maintenance order in place for your friend at the moment?
Of course, but in the meantime they are at risk of being neglected emotionally by the father and since the court have allowed such little contact, they will clearly suffer the pain of missing her.
I am going to say something that may sound harsh and unfortunately, I've learnt a ton of stuff over the last few years. Children tend to form their earliest memory at about 3 or 4 years of age, and whilst, I am not doubting that the changeover in residency, will potentially have negative effects initially, the children may not necessarily have a long term detriment to themselves. As I said, the older that the children are, the more the courts take on their views as to what they want to happen to them.
The court just believed the report and the SW lies; what the SW said and reported was just a pack of lies. It was so biased and contained so many lies (which can be proved without doubt with evidence, otherwise we wouldn't be considering such action against the SW). The children did not witness the domestic violence which actually took place (that against her for which he accepted a police caution and which proves he is a violent and dishonest person, but which was not mentioned in the reports), the allegations he made were false, so did not take place.
It's very difficult to comment on the issue of lies because I know what you are saying is right but without knowing the person and seeing the report it is difficult.
Then this may be the first...
In terms of the last part of what you wrote, I've been around a lot of people who would have gone down the route of private prosecutions for perjury but have never seen one person try. I would personally suggest your friend uses the solicitor she has found who thinks they can win to go down that route if they can afford to do so but they must be 100% certain of victory.
will make another comment shortly.....
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