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Hello.
Apologies for the long-winded message, but I would like some help and advice.
My.partner decided he wanted to end.our long-term relationship, and is.now sleeping in another part of the house. (not married)
He became emotionally involved with a woman before the breakup, and started seeing her straight away.
This happened nearly 3 months ago.
We have a 9 year old son.
The house is mortgaged, with both of our names on it.
Towards the end and even more so now, he has been very emotionally,psychologically and financially abusive.he was also very controlling.
He has been seeing the other woman most nights straight after coming home from work, and stays at hers for at least 3 nights a week.
I have been attempting to set up regular weekends, where one of us has responsibility, then the next week we swap.
He is still trying to control what I do.with my son on my weekend with him, telling me I cant do that or this, or if I wanted/needed to go out, I was being irresponsible on 'palming him off on someone else'
My questions are these
1- does he have the right to dictate what I do on my weekend with my son? (I look after him ALL week,up for school etc)
2-Is he within his rights to claim I am an unfit mother by saying if I had a night/day out on my weekend, I am being irresponsible?
3- constant barrage of emotional and psychological abuse, is there anything I can do as It is making me ill?
Again, apologies for the longwinded post.
I have an appointment with my local solicitors as I urgently need some clarity.
To put it simply.. Can my ex dictate what I do on my weekend with our son?
Apologies for the long-winded message, but I would like some help and advice.
My.partner decided he wanted to end.our long-term relationship, and is.now sleeping in another part of the house. (not married)
He became emotionally involved with a woman before the breakup, and started seeing her straight away.
This happened nearly 3 months ago.
We have a 9 year old son.
The house is mortgaged, with both of our names on it.
Towards the end and even more so now, he has been very emotionally,psychologically and financially abusive.he was also very controlling.
He has been seeing the other woman most nights straight after coming home from work, and stays at hers for at least 3 nights a week.
I have been attempting to set up regular weekends, where one of us has responsibility, then the next week we swap.
He is still trying to control what I do.with my son on my weekend with him, telling me I cant do that or this, or if I wanted/needed to go out, I was being irresponsible on 'palming him off on someone else'
My questions are these
1- does he have the right to dictate what I do on my weekend with my son? (I look after him ALL week,up for school etc)
2-Is he within his rights to claim I am an unfit mother by saying if I had a night/day out on my weekend, I am being irresponsible?
3- constant barrage of emotional and psychological abuse, is there anything I can do as It is making me ill?
Again, apologies for the longwinded post.
I have an appointment with my local solicitors as I urgently need some clarity.
To put it simply.. Can my ex dictate what I do on my weekend with our son?
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