Hi guys/girls.
Without going into to much personal detail here is e sorry story.
My wife and I have had a complicated past and we split weeks ago. Today after all the abuse (she had physically hit me and emotionally controlled me for years) I decided not to return the kids to her for there safety. The emotional abuse is constantly threatening to kill herself or leave kids and just run away unless I came there at once. As she had previously attempted suicide this scares me to run around where she usually argues and sometimes hits me. The kids see all of this my oldest 11 says he hates it all and wants his mum better.
I have asked her to seek help. This led to a crazy situation where the police were involved. They advised the children should stay with me as she was not capable of caring for them.
My problem is without a residency order I cannot stop her taking the kids from school and running away or doing something worse.
My intention is to apply for an interim residency order until a full residency order hearing can take place. Im intending on doing this using a C100 and claiming urgent to protect the children from harm.
I have a few questions.
1) should my order be for an interim residency order or just a residency order (urgent is a given)
2) what time frame should I put on the section where it asks how long to be heard
3) is this the best option legally I can take? I don't want to stop her seeing the kids but until her netball health can be resolved I feel it's in there best interest to stay with me
Ask if any more info is needed.
Thanks
Without going into to much personal detail here is e sorry story.
My wife and I have had a complicated past and we split weeks ago. Today after all the abuse (she had physically hit me and emotionally controlled me for years) I decided not to return the kids to her for there safety. The emotional abuse is constantly threatening to kill herself or leave kids and just run away unless I came there at once. As she had previously attempted suicide this scares me to run around where she usually argues and sometimes hits me. The kids see all of this my oldest 11 says he hates it all and wants his mum better.
I have asked her to seek help. This led to a crazy situation where the police were involved. They advised the children should stay with me as she was not capable of caring for them.
My problem is without a residency order I cannot stop her taking the kids from school and running away or doing something worse.
My intention is to apply for an interim residency order until a full residency order hearing can take place. Im intending on doing this using a C100 and claiming urgent to protect the children from harm.
I have a few questions.
1) should my order be for an interim residency order or just a residency order (urgent is a given)
2) what time frame should I put on the section where it asks how long to be heard
3) is this the best option legally I can take? I don't want to stop her seeing the kids but until her netball health can be resolved I feel it's in there best interest to stay with me
Ask if any more info is needed.
Thanks
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