Hi, I'm looking for some quite specific advice regarding a parental responsibility issue.
My partner has full parental responsibility for his 3 children who reside with their Mother, there is a court order in place defining access that was made by agreement 4 and a half years ago. One of the agreed contacts is a mid week tea time, the arrangement is that the children are to be collected directly from school and returned home later in the evening, the relationship between my partner and his ex is very fractious and historically his ex has never been accommodating of any changes being made to the order that have been requested by my partner, work dictates (different job to when the order was put in place) that the mid week access is becoming very difficult to manage and my partner struggles to be able to leave work to make it to the school on time for pick ups, this situation arose again yesterday and my partner contacted the school and asked that the children be taken into the after school club until he arrived. The childrens mother and her boyfriend (who resides with them) have created a massive drama about this and have claimed my partner has to seek mothers permission before allowing the children to be in any ones care ( including after school club) other than a family member. This seems absurd to us, this was on his court ordered time and surely given he has full parental responsibility this is a decision he is entitled to make by himself ? could anyone confirm this to be the case and also (apologies for going on) if it is the case he has to seek her permission does it not follow that she must seek his given he has PR ?
Thanks in advance
My partner has full parental responsibility for his 3 children who reside with their Mother, there is a court order in place defining access that was made by agreement 4 and a half years ago. One of the agreed contacts is a mid week tea time, the arrangement is that the children are to be collected directly from school and returned home later in the evening, the relationship between my partner and his ex is very fractious and historically his ex has never been accommodating of any changes being made to the order that have been requested by my partner, work dictates (different job to when the order was put in place) that the mid week access is becoming very difficult to manage and my partner struggles to be able to leave work to make it to the school on time for pick ups, this situation arose again yesterday and my partner contacted the school and asked that the children be taken into the after school club until he arrived. The childrens mother and her boyfriend (who resides with them) have created a massive drama about this and have claimed my partner has to seek mothers permission before allowing the children to be in any ones care ( including after school club) other than a family member. This seems absurd to us, this was on his court ordered time and surely given he has full parental responsibility this is a decision he is entitled to make by himself ? could anyone confirm this to be the case and also (apologies for going on) if it is the case he has to seek her permission does it not follow that she must seek his given he has PR ?
Thanks in advance
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