Childs Contact Order

[Inca]

Re: Childs Contact Order

Hello again,

Ive been to meet my new solicitor this week,Seemed very confused as to why not 1 solicitor had put a stop to the ongoing problems.I'm hoping to apply to the courts for a non-molistation order once that has been done I should beable to revoke the contact order all together .



I'm staying positive and shooting one plastic duck at a time ...I know I have a long way to go! xx

Excellent,well done ....those plastic ducks will eventually start getting hit 2/3 at a time.
Now listen,,,keep a diary of ALL appointments..who you saw,what was said,,like a little journal,it'll help jog your memory when stuff comes up from previous meetings. Also keep a log of questions you want answered,cos if you're anything like me you'll completely forget to ask until the meeting is over.
What I did was to have a little note book and some of those sticky tabs to put at top of page,,yellow was 'must remember that' green was 'must ask that' red was 'needs sorting NOW'
Keep every shred of paper pertaining to all this,,get a box for them all to go in and when it's all over you can sort the crap out and keep the important bits.
The more organised you are,the less you have to fret

Keep up the brilliant work,,you're doing amazingly well xx

[helpinhand]

Re: Childs Contact Order

Thanks,that's a great idea..I have been keeping logs too.

So far things have been quiet,no unexpected visits or letters have arrived.Still waiting to hear back from legal aid an my new sol,hopefully they won't take too long

hope your well :-) xx

[Inca]

Re: Childs Contact Order

I spoke too soon about our issues with S/daughter..7.30pm last night OH gets text,,she wants to come and live with us (not really possible but will make it so if needs be).
OH rang the Mother,,her attitude is 'if you want her,come and get her'
I have made OH arrange to speak to the Mother face to face with daughter present (not me,,oh no,,,I'm keeping out)
I also know how much shit stirring teenagers can do,,and I think this is 50/50,,stroppy teenager v fed up Mum.
Such fun...........NOT.

[helpinhand]

Re: Childs Contact Order

I know how that feels,it's not the best thing to have to deal with and all children say things in the heat of the moment.

something must of been said/done for this reaction,passing the book isn't always the answer.I hope things get sorted xx