Hi everybody, I'll try and give as much detail as I can, in the hope that someone can advise me.
I have been receiving payments from my ex husband for our son since 2002. The case had not been reviewed for 5 years in 2011 when I accidentally found out (slip of the tongue by ex father in law) that my ex had changed address. I did some digging around and discovered that he had bought a house in Dec 2008, no mortgage. Like I previously said, our case had not been reviewed for 5 years, so he would still be claiming to be paying £70 per week rent.
I rang the CSA, they hadn't been informed of his change of address, so they decided to investigate. A decision was made in Nov 2011 that my weekly payments were increasing and that my ex owed me back payments to April 2011 (when I first informed them).
I recently appealed against the decision, I disagreed with the date it was back dated to. My ex apparently also appealed against the decision completely.
Today I received the papers that will be submitted to the tribunal. The decision on my ex's appeal is that my payments will remain the same. The decision on my appeal is that the dates will stay the same, as the proof I submitted (a copy of the deeds to his property) only proves when he bought the property and not when he moved in.
The onus now is on me to provide proof of when he moved into the property. I have searched the electoral registers and found him on all of them from when we separated to when he bought the property, but nothing after that, again this proves nothing.
The papers state that his post had been delivered to his previous address 'as a confident address for mail' until April 2011 (this is when I informed them of the change of address)
On the Record of decisions it states that my ex claimed that his parents owned the house with a mortgage secured on it, the proof I submitted proved otherwise.
Everything points to him lying but without proof nothing can be done. Why is the onus on me alone to provide proof? I don't know whether I should continue with the appeal without solid proof.
I'm sorry for the length of the post, and I hope it makes sense. Some advise would be much appreciated.
Thank you in advance
I have been receiving payments from my ex husband for our son since 2002. The case had not been reviewed for 5 years in 2011 when I accidentally found out (slip of the tongue by ex father in law) that my ex had changed address. I did some digging around and discovered that he had bought a house in Dec 2008, no mortgage. Like I previously said, our case had not been reviewed for 5 years, so he would still be claiming to be paying £70 per week rent.
I rang the CSA, they hadn't been informed of his change of address, so they decided to investigate. A decision was made in Nov 2011 that my weekly payments were increasing and that my ex owed me back payments to April 2011 (when I first informed them).
I recently appealed against the decision, I disagreed with the date it was back dated to. My ex apparently also appealed against the decision completely.
Today I received the papers that will be submitted to the tribunal. The decision on my ex's appeal is that my payments will remain the same. The decision on my appeal is that the dates will stay the same, as the proof I submitted (a copy of the deeds to his property) only proves when he bought the property and not when he moved in.
The onus now is on me to provide proof of when he moved into the property. I have searched the electoral registers and found him on all of them from when we separated to when he bought the property, but nothing after that, again this proves nothing.
The papers state that his post had been delivered to his previous address 'as a confident address for mail' until April 2011 (this is when I informed them of the change of address)
On the Record of decisions it states that my ex claimed that his parents owned the house with a mortgage secured on it, the proof I submitted proved otherwise.
Everything points to him lying but without proof nothing can be done. Why is the onus on me alone to provide proof? I don't know whether I should continue with the appeal without solid proof.
I'm sorry for the length of the post, and I hope it makes sense. Some advise would be much appreciated.
Thank you in advance
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