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Hi, me and my child's father broke up a few years ago. He really messed with my head and I had a really bad night involving alcohol. He phoned the police and took the children. I got a lawyer and fought yo get them back. Very long process.
I wanted to drop the stress and try work things out with him for the sake of the children. We agreed sort it out between our self. I feel he has manipulated me. We let our lawyers quickly draw up a crt order so that he has residency and i have a contact order on about a 55/45% split. But he promised we wouldn't stick with that and be good parents together but apart.
Anyway it's the worst decisioni have ever made. As soon as we signed the crt order he became power mad controlling all of our lives. Telling everyone that I've signed my kids over yo him and bad mouthing me everywhere. Keeping them on an extra weekend that messed up our schedule. And he kept them an extra week in summer. I made dentist appointment for kids and he went behind my back and rescheduled appointment without telling me. They both needed alot of work done as he gives them so much sugar. So many little things really but it's been so horrible. He says I need to ask his permission on everything.
So I did something really stupid and didn't hand the kids over on Xmas eve. I kept them on Xmas day and then gave them back on boxing day. He had them for past 2 xmas days. He was so mad at me. He said I'm never gonna see the girls again. I know whwt i did was wrong but my older son wanted to spend Xmas with his sisters and so did my family.
My girls are age 6 n 7 and my son is 14
I will fight him all the way but do I stand a chance as I went against the crt order.
I feel so bad for the kids, they want to stay with me.
I wanted to drop the stress and try work things out with him for the sake of the children. We agreed sort it out between our self. I feel he has manipulated me. We let our lawyers quickly draw up a crt order so that he has residency and i have a contact order on about a 55/45% split. But he promised we wouldn't stick with that and be good parents together but apart.
Anyway it's the worst decisioni have ever made. As soon as we signed the crt order he became power mad controlling all of our lives. Telling everyone that I've signed my kids over yo him and bad mouthing me everywhere. Keeping them on an extra weekend that messed up our schedule. And he kept them an extra week in summer. I made dentist appointment for kids and he went behind my back and rescheduled appointment without telling me. They both needed alot of work done as he gives them so much sugar. So many little things really but it's been so horrible. He says I need to ask his permission on everything.
So I did something really stupid and didn't hand the kids over on Xmas eve. I kept them on Xmas day and then gave them back on boxing day. He had them for past 2 xmas days. He was so mad at me. He said I'm never gonna see the girls again. I know whwt i did was wrong but my older son wanted to spend Xmas with his sisters and so did my family.
My girls are age 6 n 7 and my son is 14
I will fight him all the way but do I stand a chance as I went against the crt order.
I feel so bad for the kids, they want to stay with me.
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