Tweet
All,
I would like your help on what I would class as a disgraceful issue and im not sure whether this is legally allowed. Also im trying to find people who have been in similar situations and historical cases that have been fought on these grounds and where it ended up.
I've been with my wife for 3 years. As she is a Solicitor [this doesn't help
] She has her own injury law practice. To help her out for the initial couple of years. We came to an arrangement that she can work at her family business during the week. Then we would meet up at the weekend
I told her many times that this living arrangement is very straining and we should live together. She was distant and also kept her financial situation private
She then suggested we need to have a child and "everything will be alright once we have the kid"
So for trying for a child she would travel up to me every other day, which didn't work. Then we went through IVF treatment for having a child, which was a success the first time
After which she has stayed at her mum and dads homes as she was suffering from morning sickness and not able to move much. Initially she would let me visit or suggest I travel up
I gave her the space she needed. Then when I tried to talk to her about the living arrangement she wasn't interested in discussing.
After which she has demanded a divorce and also did not let me come to the child's birth.
We had initially come up with a childs full name, but she decided to register the child on her own and added an additional middle name, without consulting me.
This situation just smells of deceit and what id call "honey potting" the premises of getting a child then wanting to disappear
Can people suggest what I should do and also what similar cases their might be in the history of law. It would be interesting so see if this has happened before
Thanks in advance!
I would like your help on what I would class as a disgraceful issue and im not sure whether this is legally allowed. Also im trying to find people who have been in similar situations and historical cases that have been fought on these grounds and where it ended up.
I've been with my wife for 3 years. As she is a Solicitor [this doesn't help
] She has her own injury law practice. To help her out for the initial couple of years. We came to an arrangement that she can work at her family business during the week. Then we would meet up at the weekendI told her many times that this living arrangement is very straining and we should live together. She was distant and also kept her financial situation private
She then suggested we need to have a child and "everything will be alright once we have the kid"
So for trying for a child she would travel up to me every other day, which didn't work. Then we went through IVF treatment for having a child, which was a success the first time
After which she has stayed at her mum and dads homes as she was suffering from morning sickness and not able to move much. Initially she would let me visit or suggest I travel up
I gave her the space she needed. Then when I tried to talk to her about the living arrangement she wasn't interested in discussing.
After which she has demanded a divorce and also did not let me come to the child's birth.
We had initially come up with a childs full name, but she decided to register the child on her own and added an additional middle name, without consulting me.
This situation just smells of deceit and what id call "honey potting" the premises of getting a child then wanting to disappear
Can people suggest what I should do and also what similar cases their might be in the history of law. It would be interesting so see if this has happened before
Thanks in advance!
