Hello,
I was wondering if anyone could help me,
I have worked for my employer for nearly 4 years now in that time I have had 2 children, due to my childcare arrangements having to change I am unable to continue to work.
My mother and my partners mother used to look after the kids for us but as they are both getting older they are finding it difficult with a toddler and a 7 month old.. I do not earn enough to cover 2 children in childcare, I barely earn enough to cover one child's childcare costs so therefore 2 would be impossible to afford. I made this clear to my employer and gave my 4 weeks notice as required in my contract.
My employer was understanding at first, offering me a slight pay rise, I thanked him for the offer but it still did not cover the cost of childcare, he asked me what it would take for me to stay so I worked out just the cost of childcare which I knew he would not be able to meet.
as I have a study contract in place and have been studying for my qualification I was aware I would have study costs to repay. I don't have any savings and raising 2 children is quite expensive so I asked if I was able to repay these costs in instalments, as my partner would still be working but I would not.
Things took a more formal turn when I was invited in to a meeting where I was told that what I had asked for was not possible and given 3 options, repay in full the 5k costs, continue my employment for a further year which would mean no repayment would be due after that year was up or continue my employment and deduct the instalments from my pay. I mentioned again that I don't earn enough to have someone look after my children for me to come to work and asked again awould it not be possible for me to make instalments myself and was told no they don't believe I would pay it.
I signed an employment contract and study contract when I joined. The employment contract states the following "the company is committed to the continuous development of all its employees, it is vital that employees posses the skills and knowledge to enable them to perform their duties effectively. on completion of your study you must complete at least one years full employment. If you wish to terminate this contract before completion of your study you will be obliged to pay the company in full for all costs incurred"
The breakdown of the 5k dates back to the full costs of my first exam which I completed in 2014 which they have had the benefit of my knowledge since that time.
I was just wondering if anyone could give me some advise as I feel I am being bullied in to staying which I can't afford to do as I can't repay in one lump sum within the next two weeks?
Thank you in advance!
I was wondering if anyone could help me,
I have worked for my employer for nearly 4 years now in that time I have had 2 children, due to my childcare arrangements having to change I am unable to continue to work.
My mother and my partners mother used to look after the kids for us but as they are both getting older they are finding it difficult with a toddler and a 7 month old.. I do not earn enough to cover 2 children in childcare, I barely earn enough to cover one child's childcare costs so therefore 2 would be impossible to afford. I made this clear to my employer and gave my 4 weeks notice as required in my contract.
My employer was understanding at first, offering me a slight pay rise, I thanked him for the offer but it still did not cover the cost of childcare, he asked me what it would take for me to stay so I worked out just the cost of childcare which I knew he would not be able to meet.
as I have a study contract in place and have been studying for my qualification I was aware I would have study costs to repay. I don't have any savings and raising 2 children is quite expensive so I asked if I was able to repay these costs in instalments, as my partner would still be working but I would not.
Things took a more formal turn when I was invited in to a meeting where I was told that what I had asked for was not possible and given 3 options, repay in full the 5k costs, continue my employment for a further year which would mean no repayment would be due after that year was up or continue my employment and deduct the instalments from my pay. I mentioned again that I don't earn enough to have someone look after my children for me to come to work and asked again awould it not be possible for me to make instalments myself and was told no they don't believe I would pay it.
I signed an employment contract and study contract when I joined. The employment contract states the following "the company is committed to the continuous development of all its employees, it is vital that employees posses the skills and knowledge to enable them to perform their duties effectively. on completion of your study you must complete at least one years full employment. If you wish to terminate this contract before completion of your study you will be obliged to pay the company in full for all costs incurred"
The breakdown of the 5k dates back to the full costs of my first exam which I completed in 2014 which they have had the benefit of my knowledge since that time.
I was just wondering if anyone could give me some advise as I feel I am being bullied in to staying which I can't afford to do as I can't repay in one lump sum within the next two weeks?
Thank you in advance!
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