Hi,
I would like a little advise please. This may be a long post, so i will try my best to keep it short.
I had a new manager start work at the beginning of last year.
In August last year I became very ill with a mental illness and depression. This was brought on due to unnecessary stress from work due to me not having enough staff to do a good enough job. (I am a head greenkeeper on a golf course) The new manager was continuously berating me which led to me starting work at 6 am working 11 hour shifts just to try to get on top of the job and eventually I just broke down.
I was off for a long time (7 months) keeping in regular contact with work, letting them know how I was etc etc. I tried to phase return into work after 5 months off but I broke down again in my office and was consequently sent home. Just before I started back to work I had a meeting with my two managers, both of whom asked me to sort out a full medical report for them to view, and they told me I could lose my job if the medical report didnt say what they wanted it to say. Luckily the medical reporrt was sound and I returned to work.
About a week or maybe two weeks I received a 'Capability Procedure' from my manager, who advised me to read it. A couple days later I received a letter stating that my way of management was under question and I wasn't following the procedure properly, and I needed to attend an 'investigatory meeting'. I attended that and was put on a 2 week period to improve my management style. I should say that I have been at my particular place of work now for 14 years with absolutely no negatives against my name until this new 'manager' turned up. I started to worry about this 2 week period, and didn't really know what I could do. After the two weeks were up I received another letter basically saying that my improvement wasn't good enough and this was being taken to the next level. I began to think that this guy was after getting rid of me by bullying me out of my job. This was confirmed when we went for a 'quiet cup of coffee' at the local coffee shop and he asked me if there was a figure I would be happy with if I left the job, but told me to keep it under strictest confidence that he asked me that!
I came home that night and discussed it with my wife and we decided to write a letter to the chairman outlining what my boss had done. The Chairman went straight to my boss with the letter and obviously discussed it with him, but i have not heard anything back from this yet. This was 2 and a half weeks ago.
Since being back to work my boss has created a 'no smoking policy' bearing in mind I work outside this is pretty harsh but I decided to go along with it. After a particularly stressful morning I had a cigarrette and he caught me smoking (whilst still working) outside. I recieved another letter inviting me to an investigation meeting which was yesterday. In the meeting that I was not allowed to bring a witness to I told him I was recording the meeting. His face changed and said he is postponing the meeting with immediate effect. With that I went home as it was passed my finishing time, and at about 5 pm I received a letter via email saying that I was suspended from work and another investigation meeting is set up tomorrow.
I feel as if he is trying to push me out, I have always had the opinion that he thinks he can do my job and I am just in the way of him achieving that. I am beginning to feel the same symptoms of my illness now and feel as if I am going back into my depression. My wife is disgusted with his actions and says this is no way to treat someone with a mental illness.
Thanks for reading. What do you think?
Regards
Funky
I would like a little advise please. This may be a long post, so i will try my best to keep it short.
I had a new manager start work at the beginning of last year.
In August last year I became very ill with a mental illness and depression. This was brought on due to unnecessary stress from work due to me not having enough staff to do a good enough job. (I am a head greenkeeper on a golf course) The new manager was continuously berating me which led to me starting work at 6 am working 11 hour shifts just to try to get on top of the job and eventually I just broke down.
I was off for a long time (7 months) keeping in regular contact with work, letting them know how I was etc etc. I tried to phase return into work after 5 months off but I broke down again in my office and was consequently sent home. Just before I started back to work I had a meeting with my two managers, both of whom asked me to sort out a full medical report for them to view, and they told me I could lose my job if the medical report didnt say what they wanted it to say. Luckily the medical reporrt was sound and I returned to work.
About a week or maybe two weeks I received a 'Capability Procedure' from my manager, who advised me to read it. A couple days later I received a letter stating that my way of management was under question and I wasn't following the procedure properly, and I needed to attend an 'investigatory meeting'. I attended that and was put on a 2 week period to improve my management style. I should say that I have been at my particular place of work now for 14 years with absolutely no negatives against my name until this new 'manager' turned up. I started to worry about this 2 week period, and didn't really know what I could do. After the two weeks were up I received another letter basically saying that my improvement wasn't good enough and this was being taken to the next level. I began to think that this guy was after getting rid of me by bullying me out of my job. This was confirmed when we went for a 'quiet cup of coffee' at the local coffee shop and he asked me if there was a figure I would be happy with if I left the job, but told me to keep it under strictest confidence that he asked me that!
I came home that night and discussed it with my wife and we decided to write a letter to the chairman outlining what my boss had done. The Chairman went straight to my boss with the letter and obviously discussed it with him, but i have not heard anything back from this yet. This was 2 and a half weeks ago.
Since being back to work my boss has created a 'no smoking policy' bearing in mind I work outside this is pretty harsh but I decided to go along with it. After a particularly stressful morning I had a cigarrette and he caught me smoking (whilst still working) outside. I recieved another letter inviting me to an investigation meeting which was yesterday. In the meeting that I was not allowed to bring a witness to I told him I was recording the meeting. His face changed and said he is postponing the meeting with immediate effect. With that I went home as it was passed my finishing time, and at about 5 pm I received a letter via email saying that I was suspended from work and another investigation meeting is set up tomorrow.
I feel as if he is trying to push me out, I have always had the opinion that he thinks he can do my job and I am just in the way of him achieving that. I am beginning to feel the same symptoms of my illness now and feel as if I am going back into my depression. My wife is disgusted with his actions and says this is no way to treat someone with a mental illness.
Thanks for reading. What do you think?
Regards
Funky
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