Hi :beagle2222:'s!
Have just joined the forum tonight having been reading the site for several months in the lead up to my Employment Tribunal.
I am taking my employer to ET for disability discrimination (i. harassment directly linked to disability, complete with a catalogue of written evidence ii. failure to make reasonable adjustment iii. victimisation following my grievance hearings).
To cut a *VERY* long story short, I had my preliminary hearing this week. I am self representing and the first thing that happened upon entering the hearing room was the judge asking why I have no representation, my response (which I felt very uncomfortable having to give in front of the employer and their cutting edge barrister) was "finances".. and the judge bit back with "thats not an excuse.. you are still employed!... you should think very hard about using some of your money for this!"... I tried to explain that I am now working p/t hours (due to psych. injury caused by this case) and was on a low wage to begin with - all of my money is taken up with family and home expenses and I also have significant debt. Two things really bothered me about this - 1. Is this a normal line of questioning for a judge and 2. Was it really appropriate for me to have to answer that in front of the respondent? I felt rather humiliated.
To be honest the whole experience was quite horrid.... I am suffering from a psych injury that I detailed in my ET1 to take into account & explain that I experience high levels of anxiety, I also have a neurological and communication disorder that causes similar effects.. none of this appeared to be taken into consideration in the way the judge was conversing with me. I ended up extremely upset and having an anxiety attack (which I'm sure the other side loved)... but the judge chastised me for this too saying I clearly couldn't cope with the process.
Case wise, things are still OK, another PH is scheduled following submission of more particulars and the points of the case that can be brought are defined. I just wondered if it were normal to feel thoroughly chastised as the claimant by the judge for not having a legal rep... and to be honest felt attacked the whole way through without being allowed to answer more than two words before being cut off...
:doggieyes: has anyone had anything similar? or perhaps was the judge purposefully being this way to give me a taste of what to expect. i left there wanting to chuck myself off a high building.
Have just joined the forum tonight having been reading the site for several months in the lead up to my Employment Tribunal.
I am taking my employer to ET for disability discrimination (i. harassment directly linked to disability, complete with a catalogue of written evidence ii. failure to make reasonable adjustment iii. victimisation following my grievance hearings).
To cut a *VERY* long story short, I had my preliminary hearing this week. I am self representing and the first thing that happened upon entering the hearing room was the judge asking why I have no representation, my response (which I felt very uncomfortable having to give in front of the employer and their cutting edge barrister) was "finances".. and the judge bit back with "thats not an excuse.. you are still employed!... you should think very hard about using some of your money for this!"... I tried to explain that I am now working p/t hours (due to psych. injury caused by this case) and was on a low wage to begin with - all of my money is taken up with family and home expenses and I also have significant debt. Two things really bothered me about this - 1. Is this a normal line of questioning for a judge and 2. Was it really appropriate for me to have to answer that in front of the respondent? I felt rather humiliated.
To be honest the whole experience was quite horrid.... I am suffering from a psych injury that I detailed in my ET1 to take into account & explain that I experience high levels of anxiety, I also have a neurological and communication disorder that causes similar effects.. none of this appeared to be taken into consideration in the way the judge was conversing with me. I ended up extremely upset and having an anxiety attack (which I'm sure the other side loved)... but the judge chastised me for this too saying I clearly couldn't cope with the process.
Case wise, things are still OK, another PH is scheduled following submission of more particulars and the points of the case that can be brought are defined. I just wondered if it were normal to feel thoroughly chastised as the claimant by the judge for not having a legal rep... and to be honest felt attacked the whole way through without being allowed to answer more than two words before being cut off...
:doggieyes: has anyone had anything similar? or perhaps was the judge purposefully being this way to give me a taste of what to expect. i left there wanting to chuck myself off a high building.
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