I could really use some advice please! I work for a large global media company in the marketing department as part of the events team in London. I started 5 months ago and I love my job.
I earn £28k per annum for what is supposed to be a 37.5 hour week but on average, I work 45 hours a week and some weeks it can be as much as 70 hours per week.There is no overtime or time off in lieu but I am told that this is the nature of the business.
It's a really good company so I decided to suck it up and not complain about all the unpaid hours as I thought my male colleague was in the same position.
Our team assistant left before Xmas and she informed me that my male colleague was earning £35k per annum, £7k more than me. She told me in confidence as she felt it was very unfair. I am 33 and he is 32 and we started around the same time. He has 6 years marketing experience working for 1 company and he did Drama in college. I have 6 years marketing experience in various companies and I have a marketing degree and I specialised in event management at a post-graduate level. I also have 5 years retail management experience. I later told my male colleague my salary over work drinks and he was shocked and he confirmed he was earning £35k.
I get on very well with my boss and I see her as a mentor and a friend. I decided to have an informal chat with her over a cup of coffee after our weekly 1 to 1 catch-up. I asked her firstly was she happy with my performance and was there anything I could improve on and she said just continue the way I am, I'm doing great and she loves having me on the team. I then said that I was aware of a significant pay gap on the team and I just wanted to get some guidance as I had never encountered this before.
Her demeanour quickly changed and she asked "how do you know that?" I said it wasn't anyone on the team. She then asked me was it the team assistant who left? And I said nothing. She told me the team assistant wasn't being truthful and the pay gap was very small because his job requires longer hours. She was blatantly lying to me.
I then said I knew there was £7k of a difference and at that point she went mad!! She shouted "I am so f&@ked off that you know this confidential information, how do you know for sure he earns £7k more than you? Tell me?? I just blurted out in panic, that I confirmed the information with my male colleague. She then said my male colleague had more relevant events experience than me and they head-hunted him from another company and that was the budget for him. She said she was offered less for my role and that's just the way it is. I tired to challenge this but she got so angry and I got scared. She then said I needed to work harder and show my value to the company. She went to call HR and after, she called me into a room. She said she had taken the ex team assistants reference away and she said she is going to caution my male colleague about discussing salaries.
She said by "bringing this up" I have now affected the moral of the team and she has to speak to the whole department about company confidentially.
I really feel I have jeopardised my job I am in my 6 month probation period so I'm afraid she will just tell me to leave. I feel very bullied and backed into a corner. I work very hard and this whole situation is so unfair. In hindsight, I was naive to think I could just have a small chat about this issue as it now is a huge problem,.
She has booked me a slot to go speak to HR next week and I am petrified I will lose my job. If you have any legal advise or just advise I would greatly appreciate it. I can't eat, sleep and I have been physically sick with worry.
Thank you. Jenny.
I earn £28k per annum for what is supposed to be a 37.5 hour week but on average, I work 45 hours a week and some weeks it can be as much as 70 hours per week.There is no overtime or time off in lieu but I am told that this is the nature of the business.
It's a really good company so I decided to suck it up and not complain about all the unpaid hours as I thought my male colleague was in the same position.
Our team assistant left before Xmas and she informed me that my male colleague was earning £35k per annum, £7k more than me. She told me in confidence as she felt it was very unfair. I am 33 and he is 32 and we started around the same time. He has 6 years marketing experience working for 1 company and he did Drama in college. I have 6 years marketing experience in various companies and I have a marketing degree and I specialised in event management at a post-graduate level. I also have 5 years retail management experience. I later told my male colleague my salary over work drinks and he was shocked and he confirmed he was earning £35k.
I get on very well with my boss and I see her as a mentor and a friend. I decided to have an informal chat with her over a cup of coffee after our weekly 1 to 1 catch-up. I asked her firstly was she happy with my performance and was there anything I could improve on and she said just continue the way I am, I'm doing great and she loves having me on the team. I then said that I was aware of a significant pay gap on the team and I just wanted to get some guidance as I had never encountered this before.
Her demeanour quickly changed and she asked "how do you know that?" I said it wasn't anyone on the team. She then asked me was it the team assistant who left? And I said nothing. She told me the team assistant wasn't being truthful and the pay gap was very small because his job requires longer hours. She was blatantly lying to me.
I then said I knew there was £7k of a difference and at that point she went mad!! She shouted "I am so f&@ked off that you know this confidential information, how do you know for sure he earns £7k more than you? Tell me?? I just blurted out in panic, that I confirmed the information with my male colleague. She then said my male colleague had more relevant events experience than me and they head-hunted him from another company and that was the budget for him. She said she was offered less for my role and that's just the way it is. I tired to challenge this but she got so angry and I got scared. She then said I needed to work harder and show my value to the company. She went to call HR and after, she called me into a room. She said she had taken the ex team assistants reference away and she said she is going to caution my male colleague about discussing salaries.
She said by "bringing this up" I have now affected the moral of the team and she has to speak to the whole department about company confidentially.
I really feel I have jeopardised my job I am in my 6 month probation period so I'm afraid she will just tell me to leave. I feel very bullied and backed into a corner. I work very hard and this whole situation is so unfair. In hindsight, I was naive to think I could just have a small chat about this issue as it now is a huge problem,.
She has booked me a slot to go speak to HR next week and I am petrified I will lose my job. If you have any legal advise or just advise I would greatly appreciate it. I can't eat, sleep and I have been physically sick with worry.
Thank you. Jenny.
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