Hello everyone and thank you in anticipation of some advice.
My son has been working for a small private company for the last three months, first job straight out of University where he got a first class honours degree. (we're so proud). Had he known then what he knows now, he would never have taken the job, but it was a good offer made even before he finished his course.
Long story short is that he handed his notice in last month, giving a month's notice, even though his contract stated he only needed to give a week. I helped him to write a very nice letter thanking his employer for the opportunity, the experience and the fact that he had found employment more suitable to his skills.
Since then his employer, the owner, has been sending emails detailing, ridiculous accusations, such as working slow, distracting others and even freelancing in company time.
My son tells me this is totally made up and totally untrue and I honestly believe him.
Last week his employer chased after him after he finished work and accosted him in the street calling him an arrogant b****** and that he had cost him money by leaving.
My son is extremely upset and stressed out over the whole situation. He feels he's being bullied and intimidated and set impossible tasks which can never be completed in the short time he has left, which is next Friday.
So here's the latest. An email (the last of four disparaging messages) last night read:
"Dear John,
I must insist you provide me with the name, address and telephone number of your new employer as I feel I have a duty of care to provide a reference.
Yours, Jack.
My advice was, don't do it! I'm sure he has no right to ask this of my son, especially because we believe he intends to make false accusations to his new employer.
Naturally he cannot wait to leave, but we can't understand what motivates the owner to behave in this way. My advice to him was stick it out, work hard, and do what he can. I think he's worried that he won't pay him, but that's yet to be seen.
What do you think?
My son has been working for a small private company for the last three months, first job straight out of University where he got a first class honours degree. (we're so proud). Had he known then what he knows now, he would never have taken the job, but it was a good offer made even before he finished his course.
Long story short is that he handed his notice in last month, giving a month's notice, even though his contract stated he only needed to give a week. I helped him to write a very nice letter thanking his employer for the opportunity, the experience and the fact that he had found employment more suitable to his skills.
Since then his employer, the owner, has been sending emails detailing, ridiculous accusations, such as working slow, distracting others and even freelancing in company time.
My son tells me this is totally made up and totally untrue and I honestly believe him.
Last week his employer chased after him after he finished work and accosted him in the street calling him an arrogant b****** and that he had cost him money by leaving.
My son is extremely upset and stressed out over the whole situation. He feels he's being bullied and intimidated and set impossible tasks which can never be completed in the short time he has left, which is next Friday.
So here's the latest. An email (the last of four disparaging messages) last night read:
"Dear John,
I must insist you provide me with the name, address and telephone number of your new employer as I feel I have a duty of care to provide a reference.
Yours, Jack.
My advice was, don't do it! I'm sure he has no right to ask this of my son, especially because we believe he intends to make false accusations to his new employer.
Naturally he cannot wait to leave, but we can't understand what motivates the owner to behave in this way. My advice to him was stick it out, work hard, and do what he can. I think he's worried that he won't pay him, but that's yet to be seen.
What do you think?
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