Hi, this is my last resort as I need some answers!
my mother is disabled and has been in and out of hospital lately. I am currently running around back and forth from my home to hers, and I also work full time (shift work, days and afternoon shift).
sometime ago I worked a continental shift pattern and there was an opportunity to go onto 2 shifts, so I requested to go on these, to which my manager agreed as I was having trouble with child care as my mother used to look after the kids. Both me and my partner work full time so this was much easier.
a fellow employee is going to be off for 4 to 6 weeks and I have been given a weeks notice that I am to go back onto continental shifts to cover his job. My manager knows my mother has been in and out of hospital lately and I am caring for her and if I was to go back on these shift I wouldn't be able to help her out as I will be working 12 hours.
he has requested a meeting tomorrow and I have requested a member of HR to be there. I feel like I am being intimidated by this manager as he is a manager that normally goes mental.
Can someone please help as I don't know where I stand?
Should I record the meeting on my phone and tell them before the meeting starts?
please where do I stand legally?
my mother is disabled and has been in and out of hospital lately. I am currently running around back and forth from my home to hers, and I also work full time (shift work, days and afternoon shift).
sometime ago I worked a continental shift pattern and there was an opportunity to go onto 2 shifts, so I requested to go on these, to which my manager agreed as I was having trouble with child care as my mother used to look after the kids. Both me and my partner work full time so this was much easier.
a fellow employee is going to be off for 4 to 6 weeks and I have been given a weeks notice that I am to go back onto continental shifts to cover his job. My manager knows my mother has been in and out of hospital lately and I am caring for her and if I was to go back on these shift I wouldn't be able to help her out as I will be working 12 hours.
he has requested a meeting tomorrow and I have requested a member of HR to be there. I feel like I am being intimidated by this manager as he is a manager that normally goes mental.
Can someone please help as I don't know where I stand?
Should I record the meeting on my phone and tell them before the meeting starts?
please where do I stand legally?
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