Re: Investigation whilst signed off sick
I totally disagree on that. Actually sites like this (or jobs like mine) can warp your perspective. The vast majority of employers are fair and reasonable. And the vast majority of employees are, if not ecstatic about working (if they were, the lottery wouldn't do so well) relatively happy and never, ever, get into trouble. Honest employers and honest employees far outweigh those who aren't. Unfortunately there are a minority in both groups who, for one reason or another, are not sterling examples.
Let's be theoretical. The OP may have committed a massive fraud on their employer. They did it because, hypothetically speaking, they were alcoholic and a gambler and couldn't manage their debt as a result. The vast majority of employers would call the police and/or dismiss. Wrong? Cruel? Of course not. How many people would honestly expect the employer to continue to employ this person or ignore the crime? But, rarely admittedly, I have known an employer or two to do just that to all intents and purposes. A final warning yes, "compulsory" treatment, counselling etc. Good employer? Well actually, achieving sainthood! Way beyond what anyone might expect our think "reasonable". But let's celebrate that.
So when one of those rare employers finds that their kindness is repaid by that employee going on to steal a further large amount of money, but this time by diverting finds from their clients accounts - are they kind or stupid?
I want to be clear. I'm hypothesising. Based on real circumstances. I don't know what the OP had done, or if they have done anything at all. If they have done something, I also don't care much. If they've done something bloody stupid and accept that fact, then fair do's. I've advised more than one guilty person. And within a framework of being honest, I'll help them as far as I can to get through it and get back on a path to employment. Being stupid occasionally is a human condition. Everyone makes mistakes and those mistakes don't define the person - what they do with their mistakes does!
But most employers are honest and decent. They may do things that we don't agree with, but that doesn't make them wrong or evil, it makes them employers whose first concern is their business. Which is fine. They are employers and not social services. I've dedicated my life to exposing bad employers. Believe me, I've found quite a few, but nowhere near a majority of them!
I totally disagree on that. Actually sites like this (or jobs like mine) can warp your perspective. The vast majority of employers are fair and reasonable. And the vast majority of employees are, if not ecstatic about working (if they were, the lottery wouldn't do so well) relatively happy and never, ever, get into trouble. Honest employers and honest employees far outweigh those who aren't. Unfortunately there are a minority in both groups who, for one reason or another, are not sterling examples.
Let's be theoretical. The OP may have committed a massive fraud on their employer. They did it because, hypothetically speaking, they were alcoholic and a gambler and couldn't manage their debt as a result. The vast majority of employers would call the police and/or dismiss. Wrong? Cruel? Of course not. How many people would honestly expect the employer to continue to employ this person or ignore the crime? But, rarely admittedly, I have known an employer or two to do just that to all intents and purposes. A final warning yes, "compulsory" treatment, counselling etc. Good employer? Well actually, achieving sainthood! Way beyond what anyone might expect our think "reasonable". But let's celebrate that.
So when one of those rare employers finds that their kindness is repaid by that employee going on to steal a further large amount of money, but this time by diverting finds from their clients accounts - are they kind or stupid?
I want to be clear. I'm hypothesising. Based on real circumstances. I don't know what the OP had done, or if they have done anything at all. If they have done something, I also don't care much. If they've done something bloody stupid and accept that fact, then fair do's. I've advised more than one guilty person. And within a framework of being honest, I'll help them as far as I can to get through it and get back on a path to employment. Being stupid occasionally is a human condition. Everyone makes mistakes and those mistakes don't define the person - what they do with their mistakes does!
But most employers are honest and decent. They may do things that we don't agree with, but that doesn't make them wrong or evil, it makes them employers whose first concern is their business. Which is fine. They are employers and not social services. I've dedicated my life to exposing bad employers. Believe me, I've found quite a few, but nowhere near a majority of them!
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