Hi.
I work for a known company, and really am struggling.
I have a disability and have had 2 operations, one in June 2011 where I had a month off, and one in November 2011 where I had 2 months off. Both were a direct result of my disability.
When I returned the first time, things became different, and I was told I had been sneaky with making sure I took over 3 weeks off as I must know that it wouldn't go down as an absence, I knew this but in no way did it on purpose, I needed time to heal and actually went back to work before I should have.
My second operation made my pain worse for the long run. I came back to work on a phased basis under instructions from my doctor.
I had a meeting when I returned and was told that for proof of my operation they needed my medical report.
As I have nothing to hide I gave them access after seeking advice from the union, and they were told I shouldn't work past 6pm as due to my painkillers I was very drowsy by this point, and that I was to be allowed to get up and move around if I was in pain due to my leg problem.
They still put me on the rota to work until 8pm for a while and rarely let me get up to move around as it is "too busy".
My line manager and boss have been utterly vile to me since my last operation.
Asking other colleagues what they thought of me, talking about me nastily behind my back, and telling me I would be put on a disciplinary due to my absences if they continued. These have been confirmed as a disability and all absences linked to it including the seizure I had due to my medication.
They started to tell me I was underperforming when I wasn't.
Constantly getting at me and telling me they would move me down a level and reduce my wage if I didn't improve. They never helped me to improve though.
One morning my boss told my line manager that she should use my not hitting targets as an incentive to get rid. I had hit my target, but as the team as a whole hadn't got a good enough average, managers bonus' would be reduced. I heard her say this as did other members of staff, and she knew we were listening.
This upset me as I heard it loud and clear. My colleague who also witnessed it has written a statement in case I need it.
I have now been marked as under performing in a review, I agree with a fraction of it as I have not met one of 5 targets.
However a reason they have used to justify their view of me as under performing is that I need to realise how it looks to other colleagues when I am off sick and not able to work all shifts.
My line manager asked me today if there was anything bothering me, and that what I said would be confidential and that she would rather me say it to her than "run to HR"
I told her I wasn't happy with the "use it as an incentive to get rid" phrase that the manger had said to her, which she said she didn't remember.
I have now been told that when I left, in front of everyone, my line manager approached the manager and told her that I wasn't happy about it, to which she replied "I knew she would f***ing kick off about that!"
I have now raised a grievance and HR have put it down as dignity at work as they believe my manager has breached this policy. Or that's what I think they think!
I sit between my team leader and the bully of a manager which is making this all the more stressful.
On Tuesday my colleague told me she saw our team leader e-mail the manager about how my droning voice was annoying her and that she was sick of seeing my face.
I obviously have no evidence of this but I was so wound up I was either quitting or demanding to be moved within my department. It took an hour for my union rep to calm me down and build my courage up to return to my desk. I battled through, but had another sleepless night.
On Wednesday, all day, there was an atmosphere along with certain whispering conversations talking place beside me, I couldn't tell what was being said but I was so paranoid it was about me.
I had requested HR to look in to moving me where ever they could, so thought I would hold out,
The sneaky whispering and meetings between my team leader and manager went on all day along with dirty looks and I had had enough.
I knew that my only Options were quitting or signing myself off.
I have been signed off for a week with stress but I just don't know what to do,
Do I even have a case? Should they have let me continue to sit right inbetween the bullies?!
Thanks! X
I work for a known company, and really am struggling.
I have a disability and have had 2 operations, one in June 2011 where I had a month off, and one in November 2011 where I had 2 months off. Both were a direct result of my disability.
When I returned the first time, things became different, and I was told I had been sneaky with making sure I took over 3 weeks off as I must know that it wouldn't go down as an absence, I knew this but in no way did it on purpose, I needed time to heal and actually went back to work before I should have.
My second operation made my pain worse for the long run. I came back to work on a phased basis under instructions from my doctor.
I had a meeting when I returned and was told that for proof of my operation they needed my medical report.
As I have nothing to hide I gave them access after seeking advice from the union, and they were told I shouldn't work past 6pm as due to my painkillers I was very drowsy by this point, and that I was to be allowed to get up and move around if I was in pain due to my leg problem.
They still put me on the rota to work until 8pm for a while and rarely let me get up to move around as it is "too busy".
My line manager and boss have been utterly vile to me since my last operation.
Asking other colleagues what they thought of me, talking about me nastily behind my back, and telling me I would be put on a disciplinary due to my absences if they continued. These have been confirmed as a disability and all absences linked to it including the seizure I had due to my medication.
They started to tell me I was underperforming when I wasn't.
Constantly getting at me and telling me they would move me down a level and reduce my wage if I didn't improve. They never helped me to improve though.
One morning my boss told my line manager that she should use my not hitting targets as an incentive to get rid. I had hit my target, but as the team as a whole hadn't got a good enough average, managers bonus' would be reduced. I heard her say this as did other members of staff, and she knew we were listening.
This upset me as I heard it loud and clear. My colleague who also witnessed it has written a statement in case I need it.
I have now been marked as under performing in a review, I agree with a fraction of it as I have not met one of 5 targets.
However a reason they have used to justify their view of me as under performing is that I need to realise how it looks to other colleagues when I am off sick and not able to work all shifts.
My line manager asked me today if there was anything bothering me, and that what I said would be confidential and that she would rather me say it to her than "run to HR"
I told her I wasn't happy with the "use it as an incentive to get rid" phrase that the manger had said to her, which she said she didn't remember.
I have now been told that when I left, in front of everyone, my line manager approached the manager and told her that I wasn't happy about it, to which she replied "I knew she would f***ing kick off about that!"
I have now raised a grievance and HR have put it down as dignity at work as they believe my manager has breached this policy. Or that's what I think they think!
I sit between my team leader and the bully of a manager which is making this all the more stressful.
On Tuesday my colleague told me she saw our team leader e-mail the manager about how my droning voice was annoying her and that she was sick of seeing my face.
I obviously have no evidence of this but I was so wound up I was either quitting or demanding to be moved within my department. It took an hour for my union rep to calm me down and build my courage up to return to my desk. I battled through, but had another sleepless night.
On Wednesday, all day, there was an atmosphere along with certain whispering conversations talking place beside me, I couldn't tell what was being said but I was so paranoid it was about me.
I had requested HR to look in to moving me where ever they could, so thought I would hold out,
The sneaky whispering and meetings between my team leader and manager went on all day along with dirty looks and I had had enough.
I knew that my only Options were quitting or signing myself off.
I have been signed off for a week with stress but I just don't know what to do,
Do I even have a case? Should they have let me continue to sit right inbetween the bullies?!
Thanks! X
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