Hey all
Wondering if I can get some help here
I've been told to expect to receive a communication from my HR department shortly asking me to attend a meeting to discuss potential bullying
To give abit of context I work a senior analyst for a company and part of my role is to ask other members of the team to do certain tasks but we have a team member that doesn't like to do this and activtley refuses to do this
On one occasion I had asked this person to perform an action they did not do this so I enquired how he was getting on and got a one word answer to which I then raised the issue to my manager and senior manager because it was a time sensitive task and needed to be completed
This wasnt recieved well and a informal chat then happened with HR to which the person in question laid out how they felt and was told by his immediate manager and senior manager that I have the right to do this and ask what is being done
This then settled for around 6 months but now the employee has decided to raise a formal complaint which leads us to present day
Onto my questions
I've never attended one of these meetings and although I know I haven't bullyed this person I do not know the evidence that they think they have or the allegations they are making only that I will be contacted soon for an interview
So question 1 if these allegations are found to have no basis does the record of the compliant stay on my record?
Question 2 what is the best way to handle this should I go in and be understanding of the situation and the person's feeling or just state the facts and how it is
Question 3 if the complaint is unfounded can I at the same time raise a complaint of upwards bullying by this person as I'm sure there using the internal policy's to punish me
Question 4 is there no time limit on raising these concerns surely if they raised it before and was told I did nothing wrong surely they can't just raise it again
Any help here would be good I'm stressing about this and stressing about the outcomes that could happen
Wondering if I can get some help here
I've been told to expect to receive a communication from my HR department shortly asking me to attend a meeting to discuss potential bullying
To give abit of context I work a senior analyst for a company and part of my role is to ask other members of the team to do certain tasks but we have a team member that doesn't like to do this and activtley refuses to do this
On one occasion I had asked this person to perform an action they did not do this so I enquired how he was getting on and got a one word answer to which I then raised the issue to my manager and senior manager because it was a time sensitive task and needed to be completed
This wasnt recieved well and a informal chat then happened with HR to which the person in question laid out how they felt and was told by his immediate manager and senior manager that I have the right to do this and ask what is being done
This then settled for around 6 months but now the employee has decided to raise a formal complaint which leads us to present day
Onto my questions
I've never attended one of these meetings and although I know I haven't bullyed this person I do not know the evidence that they think they have or the allegations they are making only that I will be contacted soon for an interview
So question 1 if these allegations are found to have no basis does the record of the compliant stay on my record?
Question 2 what is the best way to handle this should I go in and be understanding of the situation and the person's feeling or just state the facts and how it is
Question 3 if the complaint is unfounded can I at the same time raise a complaint of upwards bullying by this person as I'm sure there using the internal policy's to punish me
Question 4 is there no time limit on raising these concerns surely if they raised it before and was told I did nothing wrong surely they can't just raise it again
Any help here would be good I'm stressing about this and stressing about the outcomes that could happen
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